First Date Ideas
Asking a person out can be stressful enough but once you've
found someone to agree to going on a date with you, you may find
yourself under the immense pressure of planning a first date.
Planning a first date can be stressful because you want
everything to go smoothly and you also want to set yourself up
for a second date. The ideal first date offers the couple a
chance to get to know each other in a casual atmosphere that
doesn't put too much pressure on them to keep up a constant
stream of small talk.
While first dates are the perfect opportunity to get to know
someone new, if you are apprehensive about too much conversation
on the first date, you can plan a date that focuses more on an
activity than on conversation. This type of date which focuses
on a fun filled activity may be beneficial in leading to a
second date. First dates don't have to be stressful and there
are many activities that are perfect for whatever type of first
date you are looking to have.
You may also like to consider taking some flowers or small gift.
Most ladies just adore flowers and it adds a sort of softness to
the atmosphere.
Dinner theater is a perfect no-stress first date idea. The
atmosphere is usually cozy and romantic and provides the perfect
blend of conversation and entertainment. While a traditional
dinner date can lead to awkward pauses in the conversation and
the stress of juggling dinner and conversation, a dinner theater
alleviates this stress because the meal is usually served during
the performance. This allows you to eat your meal without having
to worry about small talk. Intermissions are a great opportunity
for the couple to get to know each other and if you have trouble
with a conversation starter you can always fall back on talking
about the performance.
Another no-stress first date idea is the aquarium or a museum.
The casual atmosphere alleviates the normal pressures of first
dates. There is so much to see and do at these facilities that
you will not be lacking things to talk about or do. You can
spend a few hours wandering through the exhibits and really get
to know your date. Be sure to ask questions about what your date
likes or doesn't like about the exhibits. Being inquisitive will
give you a better understanding of your date's personality.
Theme parks are also a great no-stress first date idea.
Everybody loves the chance to be a kid again and the opportunity
to spend a day on thrill rides is a great way to spend a first
date. The long lines give you plenty of time to talk and get to
know each other and you may find that every time the
conversation starts to wane, you've made it to the front of the
line and it's your turn to jump onboard and enjoy the ride. The
exhilaration of thrill rides may loosen inhibitions and bring a
couple on a first date closer together.
If you are nervous about conversation, you might want to try the
traditional movie and dinner first date. The movie portion of
the date takes the stress of conversation off of your shoulders
and afterwards at dinner you have an instant conversation
starter. If you can't think of anything to talk about, you can
always ask her what she thought of the movie to spark up a
conversation. Additionally you may find that after spending a
few hours in a theater you already feel closer to your date and
conversation comes easier than anticipated.
If conversation is your strong point and you're are not at all
worried about keeping a conversation going a great no-stress
date idea for you may be a coffee shop. This is an environment
where there is little to do except talk to your date. This is
perfect for the person who enjoys the art of conversation and is
really looking forward to getting to know their date.
A white water rafting trip can be a terrific no-stress date
idea. Well, it may not be completely no-stress as the rapids can
get pretty intense but it can be free of dating stress. Rafting
is a fun an adventurous activity where you have the opportunity
to bond by working together to navigate your raft through rapids
and enjoy the excitement of riding the rapids. If you are not an
experienced rafter, be sure to arrange to have this trip
professionally guided so that you are not putting yourself in
danger.
Still another no-stress first date idea is to spend some time
volunteering. You can make arrangements for you and your date to
spend a few hours volunteering at either a soup kitchen or an
animal shelter or any other non-profit organization you like.
This situation gives you a specific task to focus on and takes
the stress off of the date. It also gives you the opportunity to
see whether or not your date is interested in helping others or
not. Make sure to check into this activity ahead of time because
many places will not allow you to come in to volunteer unless
you have completed a short introductory class beforehand.
Taking a course can be another great no-stress first date idea.
Many colleges offer courses on a variety of subjects and you are
bound to find one that will be of interest to you. For example a
cooking class might be a fun first date idea. You will have the
opportunity to learn a new skill together and will probably
leave at the end of the night with a really tasty dish that you
can enjoy together. Working together will alleviate the stress
of a first date and will give you the opportunity to get to know
each other in a casual environment.
Many cities offer singles or couples group bike rides or hikes.
Taking advantage of one of these opportunities can lead to a
no-stress first date. These activities can be fun because you
are outdoors enjoying nature and you have the opportunity to get
some exercise. These activities also often include scheduled
breaks in a scenic location which can be a great time to really
talk to your date and get to know them a little.
One final no-stress first date idea is a trip to a fun center
that offers mini-golf and arcade games. Engaging in a game of
miniature golf or squaring off by playing some video games is a
fun and competitive way to spend your first date. The activities
are lighthearted and fun and introducing the element of
competition really loosens people up so you and your date will
probably have an easy time getting to know each other.
The key to a successful first date is to plan activities that
are fun and entertaining without placing too much pressure on
the couple. Finding relaxing ways to get to know your date will
ensure that your first date is a no-stress event that leads to a
second date. A completely no-stress date is one that both
parties enjoy and one that allows the couple to engage in a
balance of fun activity and meaningful conversation without
putting too much emphasis on any one aspect of the date.