How to Choose Your Life Partner Online?
First of all, you need to be clear with yourself on what kind of
person you are after. Try to imagine him/her and the qualities
he/she should have. It should involve character as well as
beauty.
This "shopping list" should include 5-10 points. Don't try to
make a list with more then that or you will never find your
partner as they might not excites or might be very few of them
to reach.
For example: Your changes finding a smart, attractive, tall,
funny partner are higher then finding a smart, attractive, tall,
warm, financially stable, non smoking, blue eyes, loves Italian
food partner. You got the point, right?
As you do then, try to include the most important characters -
Thos that you could not compromise about. You might compromise
about the "non smoking" and maybe the "warm" but not about the
financially stable and the attractive, for example.
Another thing you need to take in consideration is reality. Try
to look at it with an objective approach - What are my changes
meeting this person and would this person would like to be with
me? For example - if you are the short, shy chubby type and you
dream about the tall, party animal type it might just be that
they will not be interested in your characters.
While you are using the objective approach, do not fall into the
"who will want me as I am" trap. Even thought, you are the
"homey", quiet, shy type there are many of them out there just
like you that would love to be with you.
The next trap that you need to be aware of - Try not to go out
there and find that partner with all those characters that we
would like them to have thinking that "you will get them "from
him/her!
Why is that, you ask? This is because no one can solve your
problems but you. Actually, the situation can become so bad, as
you start arguing on different thing because your partner would
like to change you to be just as he/she is. That will cause you
to be more and deeper inside yourselves and not the great person
you are.
Opposite side will complete each other and different types will
attract each others? I believe in that, but it is all a question
of proportions.
If the differences are small, that might help the two parts to
complete each other but if they differences are too big, it will
resolve in a relationship, where you are quite and aren't saying
a word will your partner in about "to explode" out of energy.
That gap will be bigger and bigger until you would have to stop
it all.
Now, after you have a "check list" ready, it is time for action.
You can not sit at home and wait for prince/princess charming to
just fall from the sky for you.
Go out, meet new people, join different social groups, go to
parties or try to do it the modern way - Online dating like
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