Boosting your Sexual Confidence
Birds do it, Bee's do it... let's face it we all do it! Enjoying
and participating in sex is one of the sweetest gifts we as
human beings have at our disposal. Being liberated to enjoy
yourself between the sheets is sometimes hard to achieve
considering the negative stigma's and attitude's one encounters
in life. Many people are raised to believe that sex is wrong and
that enjoying sex makes you a "bad" person. Fundamentally this
theory will never make sense, sex is what created you in the
first place. How did sex get such a bad rap anyways? Sex is
healthy, it's great exercise and is a guaranteed mood booster.
Sex solidifies a bond between you and the one you love, in the
most intimate way possible. If you find yourself lacking in
sexual confidence and yearn to unleash any sexual hold ups and
inhibitions, read on.
You need to begin by asking yourself where all your hold up' s
stem from. Your sexual timidity could be due to religious
beliefs, your parents, bad past experiences, or simply the role
which was imposed on you by society and the media. As to
religion, I believe God wanted everyone to procreate. I also
believe he wanted us to enjoy the act while we were at it or he
wouldn't have created orgasms.
Talking to your partner honestly and openly is essential so that
you know where each other stands. You'll probably be fascinated
by you're partners views on the topic and find out some funny
insights into how they became the sexual being you've come to
know and love. Reading books on sexuality either together or on
your own will help you get comfortable with certain topics and
perhaps give you some ideas on how to comfortably branch out in
your sex life. Watch educational sex movies together, (porno
though titillating is perhaps not the most authentic source with
which to educate yourself). The more you read, and watch the
more you will become comfortable with the notion that sex really
isn't "dirty" after all.
A great way to improve your sexual confidence is by embracing
your body, including all it's crinkles and dimples. If you don't
love your body, why would you expect any one else to. Spend more
naked time with yourself and go so far as to pleasure yourself
at least weekly. Everyone has ultimate sexual potential, being
free to explore sex should be a priority. Embrace your
sexuality, talk about your sexuality and above all be free.
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