How to Approach and find Women
Well if you are attracted to women you know that when it comes
to approaching them for a date it can be very intimidating. Most
guys are terrified of rejection from a girl they have interest
in, especially if you are a shy person and have little
experience when talking to new women. This is normal, if fact no
matter how many women you approach or date, you will still have
some fear when approaching women. So don't let the fear stop
you, because it will always be there, but there are ways to help
elevated the fear of approaching women.
First, you need to know what type of women you like and where to
find her. Do you like athletic women, models, geeks, and
professional women? Well then you will have to go the gym or
yoga class to find an athletic women. Go to the mall or modeling
agency to find very attractive women. Find a bookworm or geeky
girls at the library or bookstore. Go downtown to meet and find
professional businesswomen. This will give you a much better
opportunity to find the type of girl you like and would be more
likely to approach.
A good indication at which girls to approach will be the ones
that makes you FEEL good. When you see a women, or she walks
past you, and for whatever reason it makes you feel good, than
that is the women you should approach. Don't bother trying to
approach super-models if you can't be yourself around them, and
they make you nervous and uncomfortable. You will have much more
success when approaching women that make you feel good, no
matter what they look like. This is also a good way to build
your confidence with women.
Now you know where to find women and which ones to approach.
Here are some more tips to help you succeed when approaching
women:
- What exactly do you want from her, do you want a date, do you
want her phone # or email, or maybe you just want to say "hi".
Know what you want from the situation before you approach women.
- Be a man and don't act like girly-boy, be strong, confidant,
and take control of the situation. Be funny and act like you are
the best.
- Dress nicely, shave, shower and look your best.
- Just say "hey" don't worry about pick-up lines, just be
confident in what you say and do.
- Your posture and how you communicate is more important then
what you say. So stand up straight, shoulders back, lean back,
and relax. Talk in a deep voice with confidence and belief in
what you are saying.
- Tell stories and fun things that have happened to you to get
the conversation going. Always have list of fun interesting
stories to tell.
This should give you a good idea of where to start when it comes
to finding and approaching women you like, good luck!