Why it's up to YOU to take "first action" with a sexy woman,
fast
Do you want to know how to really frustrate a sexy woman who's
attracted to you, even drive her away? It's a good idea to know
this because most guys do it, not even aware they're doing it,
and then are mystified when she doesn't want to spend time with
them anymore.
Here it is: hold back from doing anything physical with her
(touching, holding hands, or kissing) because you aren't sure if
she likes you are not. This drives a sexy woman crazy because
most won't initiate physical contact with a guy (although you've
gotta love the rare exception), and she has to wait until he
finally screws up the courage to do what she's silently begging
him to do all along. For some guys this can take weeks, even
months, leaving the woman they're attracted to frustrated, even
pissed off.
A lot of men are afraid to initiate contact because they "aren't
sure" if she likes them or not. In turn, the sexy woman begins
to wonder if he's really attracted to her because he won't
initiate contact. What you wind up with is two people who are
really attracted to each other, but frustrated because each
"isn't sure."
The solution to this is actually pretty easy, and once you do it
one or two times you'll understand how much a sexy woman who is
really attracted to you wants her to touch you. In fact, touch
itself can create and enhance attraction.
Whenever you meet a beautiful sexy woman you're attracted to,
you need to begin touching her from the very beginning in a
non-threatening way that lets her know the interaction IS about
attraction, and not about " platonic friends." That's the
difference between a man who's "good with women" and the "nice
guy." The man who's good with women instantly makes the
interaction about attraction, the nice guy ("wuss") waits around
wondering if she "likes him."
When I meet a beautiful sexy woman I smile my naughty boy smile,
look her in the eye, and when I shake her hand, I hold onto it.
When we sit down to talk I lightly touch her wrist, then if she
responds positively to that I touch her shoulder when she
laughs. Then I simply take her hand and hold it.
I can't remember a time when I've had a sexy woman pull away-in
fact the reaction on her part is usually one of relief because
she instantly knows I'm not a "nice guy" who's going to make her
wait weeks before I touch her. She instantly puts me in a
category of a "man who knows women," and views me through the
lens of attraction.
I lead, and she follows, thankful I'm not going to frustrate
her, and that I'm going to gently, yet firmly lead the
attraction. I won't pressure her, and if she pulls back from an
intimate touch, I pull back just a bit, then move gently forward
so she can "surrender" to it, knowing she's with a strong man.
I never worry about whether or not she "likes me"-that mindset
is for wusses. Instead I presume she likes me, and take the
attitude that she's the one who should be concerned about
whether or not I like her. She can instantly pick up on the fact
I'm not at all worried if she's attracted to me or not, and that
attitude is very comforting to her. She knows I won't be nervous
or awkward, but instead will be confident and firm.
As long as she's engaged with me, she's interested. Even if she
pushes me away, we both know it's just a test to see how I
react. So, I pull away briefly, then gradually ramp back up to
what we were just doing... and this time where there was pushing
away, there's pulling towards, attraction where she's used to
experiencing frustration with guys.
So, if there's a beautiful sexy woman who likes to spend time
with you, and you wonder if she likes you or not, stop wondering
and start taking action... she'll like you for sure then.