The Right Formula For Choosing Mr/Ms Right
As a dating and relationship expert, I am frequently asked for
advice about HOW to choose the right partner. The question is
often centered on the qualities that are found in lasting,
healthy unions and how we can know if the people we are choosing
to date are a good match for us according to these.
The answer for everyone can only be found through careful
examination of one's own needs, wants, values and goals and
comparing these with the answers your date or partner would give
to their own self-examination of these critical relationship
components. At the core of this assessment is a need for honesty
and good self- awareness.
Therefore, it begins with you as an individual and your own
readiness for a "real" relationship. Essentially, you need to
have your own life (enough) in order and know who you are and
the direction you want your life to go in. For more specific
help with this, read my article at:
http://www.consum-mate.com/newslets/03jun.htm#feature Once you
have decided that you are indeed ready- for all the right
reasons- then you can move successfully towards serious dating
and commitment by knowing what the "right" relationship
qualities are for you and learning how to "see" them in others.
In order to do a good assessment, you need to examine four
critical areas that are at the foundation of all healthy,
enduring relationships. These are your: