Four Reasons Why Men Should Meet Women Online (And One Reason
Why They Shouldn't)
Men, if you don't already have women chasing after you every
day, then you should be dating women online. Here are the Four
most compelling reasons why men should be seeking out and
meeting women online, and one reason why they absolutely
shouldn't.
1) Online dating is the most amazing gift to men invented since
woman herself. (Well, most women.)
Think about it for a moment. For one small flat fee (and
sometimes for no fee at all) you can scope out women, learn what
they like, what they don't like, check out their picture and
actually begin swapping emails, IMs and talking with them.
Here's what you don't have: To get dressed up; to gas up your
car; to spend hours of your prime time; to buy drinks for people
you don't' know; to fail in public.
On balance, it's a pretty convenient and effective method of
meeting women.
2) There are MILLIONS of women ACTIVELY LOOKING for you online.
They are not coy "bar chicks" or girls with boyfriends. They are
what we call in marketing, HOT LEADS. Smoking hot! Because they
are coming out to meet you half way. You just have to learn how
to become the bait they are seeking.
Now, there are two basic reasons women are there on line. Some
are there to look for a guy to marry. Some are looking for a guy
to just hook up with.
But that pretty much explains guys, too. So no matter what
reason you're looking for women, there are women looking for
you, too.
3) Women online range from not-so-hot to super-hot. I have
personally hooked up with some of the most beautiful women of my
life from online. And any cursory tour through one of the better
sites will show you - this is not a side option for single guys
- it's a MUST DO!
So the attractiveness of women online pretty much mirrors the
attractiveness of women anywhere, right? Well, that's to be
expected. But when you are at a bar or club trying to meet
women, you only have a few dozen to choose from at most. And
everyone is going to be hounding the hot ones.
Online, you've got those MILLIONS to choose from. What's even
better is that you can search for them by location, income,
religion. . . all this stuff you can get out of the way before
you even say Hi.
4) Online dating is THE place to practice your game. Whether you
still remember awkward Junior High School dances like it was
yesterday, or you effortlessly meet and hookup with women all
the time, Online is the place to practice without personal
rejection.
There are lots of great techniques for meeting and seducing
women. Whatever "way" you are, or whatever "technique" you
choose, you'll have more time to practice it online. Whatever
you do, learn from your mistakes as well as your successes. Not
everything is going to work every time, and you shouldn't expect
it to.
One other great advantage to online dating is that you don't
have to fear rejection. These women you approach don't know you.
Your friends aren't there to watch you crash and burn. So, you
can take risks that you wouldn't normally take if you were
talking to a woman in person.
And that means you'll succeed more than in person, too.
Maybe.
But there is one reason NOT to go online to meet women: Being
closed minded. You are going to be exposed to lots more women
online than you've ever seen before. If you are closed minded
when you write or talk with them, you're sure to fail. If you
are not willing to get out of your rut and try something
different, to learn something new, then you are sure to fail. If
you don't learn how to listen and read women's profiles
properly, to truly understand what they mean in their profiles
or emails to you, you are sure to fail.
So, don't be closed minded. Online dating is the single best
method for meeting women today if you approach it properly. Done
wrong, it can lead to the same results you've always had, and
that may not be what you want.