8 Warning Signs He's Losing Interest
8 Warning Signs He's Losing Interest
When a relationship ends we tend to wonder where it went wrong.
Were there any warning signs that he lost interest?
YES. But you were so wrapped up in the relationship, or with
other things, that you didn't even see it coming. Here are 10
warning signs he is no longer interested. Or maybe these are how
you are acting. Either way, it is time to take a closer look at
your relationship and decide whether you want it or not.
He hasn't called you for a few days. This isn't necessarily a
sign that it is over, but if you are accustomed to him calling
frequently then there is something wrong.
Picking fights. Does he fly off the handle more than usual? Is
he causing arguments over stupid little things? This is often
happens when people are no longer interested in a relationship,
but they don't want to be the one to end it. Don't beat about
the bush, ask him outright if he is no longer interested in the
relationship.
Is secretive. He no longer wants to tell you where he has been
or who was on the phone. Maybe the phone is off limits to you.
He disappears for hours without an explanation.
He no longer refers to "we" but "I". You use to sit and plan
your future together. "We are going to do this, we are going to
do that". Now it is "I am going to do this". You are no longer
included in his future.
He'd rather spend time with his friends then you. You have to
fight with his friends for his attention.
You no longer talk. Once upon a time you would sit and have
discussions about everything, from the weather, to what is
happening to the ozone. Now he just answers everything with yes.
Friends start asking what's wrong. Friends begin to notice
tension or distance between you.
He's more critical of you. "That's a horrible dress", yet he
helped you pick it out only a few weeks ago.
Remember that theses are only warning signs and may not mean
your relationship is not worth salvaging. Be sure to talk about
it before you do something you may regret.