Ending a Bad Date
Ending a bad date
The guy that you have fancied for ages has asked you out on a
date and you've spent all day getting ready. Then when he turns
up he looks like he's been dragged through a bush backwards and
that is just his hair. He is wearing a tatty t-shirt and an old
pair of jeans while you are all made up. It's to late to get
changed so you leave with him any way. Where does he take you?
Yes you've got it to your local pub where he spends have the
night talking to his friends and the other half talking about
them. Then to top it off he takes you for fish and chips. The
whole date was a complete disaster. He is not the guy you
thought he was and you don`t know why you even fancied him in
the first place.
So what do you do when it is time to say good night? How do you
avoid the end of the date kiss? And how do you let him down
gently without being to harsh?
It is obvious you have no intentions of seeing him again so
don't beat about the bush just get straight to the point.
Sometimes being nice just doesn't work. Being to nice to a guy
that you have no interest in can lead to mixed signals giving
them the wrong idea and sometimes unwanted advances.
First off - thank him for a nice date and explain that he is not
the type of person you are looking for. If he asks for a second
chance and asks you to go on another date with him; you must be
firm with him. If you don't want to have any kind of
relationship with the guy then you have to make it quite clear.
Don't tell him that you want to be friends, unless you are
really serious about being his friend. If you don't want to see
him again make this very clear and avoid any contact with him at
all. Even giving into a good night kiss will send out the wrong
signals and that is the last thing you want.