Flirting No, No's
Flirting No, No's
Don't rely on others to make things happen for you. The only
way to get the man you want is to go out and get him yourself.
Men like women that are confident, women that will approach
them. You aren't in the playground now, where you would get your
friends to ask the boy from sixth grade out for you. You are an
adult and, if you don't want to settle for second best, you have
to go out and get your man. Alone, without help from your
friends.
Don't Tease It is one thing to flirt, but teasing can land you
in trouble. Have fun, clean fun. If you are interested in a man
you don't need to lead him on and jumping to the wrong
conclusions. Don't offer what you don't intend to give. The man
may become indignant if you don't give him what you have been
suggesting you might give.
Give Him Room To Breath Don't crowd him or cling to him. Don't
follow him around or keep your eye on him. He is probably out
for the same reason as you, to flirt with all the girls. Instead
back off, play it cool and keep him guessing.
Don't Let Rejection Get You Down All of us at one time in our
life experience rejection from the opposite sex. You might feel
a bit down at the time, but you can't let it hold you back. If
we never got rejected we would all be with the wrong guys. This
may sound strange, but it is true, as we might have settled with
someone without having set our goals higher.
Don't Fidget Fidgeting is a sign of nervousness, and lack of
confidence, and can discourage people from approaching you. Even
if you are nervous hold your posture, and keep your hands and
legs still. Better still get onto the dance floor and put your
hands and legs to good use.
Don't Get Drunk This is the last but the most important. Being
drunk can make a usually ugly guy seem handsome, and can lead
you to give him your phone number, or worse still, going back to
his place and waking up next to him in all his unsightly glory.
When you are drunk you also aren't aware of your surroundings or
what is happening and it can leave you forgetting what took
place the night before, good, or bad. If you have too much to
drink, this is the time you need your friends. Make sure that
they don't leave without you, and that they see to it that you
get home safely.
Now all that is left is for you to have a good time, know your
own limits, and flirt away!