What do men and women want in a love relationship?
When recent polls asked what men and women would most like in
their relationship, the resounding response was happiness. Is
your love relationship a happy one? If it is not, then what
exactly is a happy love relationship? This article tries to
answer this pressing question. It will teach you how you can be
guaranteed that your love relationship will bring you happiness.
As relationship advisor, I often hear men and women say they are
happy with their love life. Behind closed doors, however, the
same people who say they are happy with their love life admit
that they are not. For many years, I have heard people say that
although they are unhappy with what they have, it is better than
being alone. Women, in particular, say it is too difficult to
find a good man.
Certain steps are required to find the love relationship that
will make you and your partner happy. Here are five simple steps
to help you find the happiness that eludes you.
Step 1. Acknowledge that you have not been successful at
relationship. This is key, because admitting that something is
not right automatically programs your brain to bring about
change. Denial, on the other hand, will keep you making excuses.
Step 2. When you have acknowledged the truth, you are now ready
to finally succeed. Begin by finding love in the right places.
What I mean here is a change of habit. I have put some of my
clients through this process, and the result has been very
rewarding for them. It also brought me much joy to know that
somehow I have helped them find happiness.
Step 3. Seek your love relationship with the right person, your
twin soul or what I call your soulmate. Here is why. Twin souls
are two people who were created for and with each other in mind.
They are parts of each other. This is why people may feel alone
even if they are in a love relationship if it is not with their
soulmates.
Your soulmate was created by a higher power, and it is only this
higher power who can lead you to the person. Acknowledging this
is a very important part of recognizing your soulmate. Because
if a higher power created a twin soul for you the same higher
power has created a way to bring the two of you together. This
is so very important, I cannot stress it enough. I have gone
through the process myself and know this from personal
experience. So you have met a love interest, are dating or even
in a relationship. You must do your part to recognize if you are
each others soulmate or not. After that the next step, step 4 is
the most important part of the process if you want assurance
that you and your love interest were created for each other and
that the relationship will work.
Step 4. Wait for a confirmation. When two people meet, the only
way they can know they are soulmates is by receiving a
confirmation. Confirmation comes in a variety of ways. Because
soulmates were created for each other by a higher power, the
same higher power will give you a confirmation. To make this
point clear, I will ask you to see yourself as a mother. You
have several cups in your cupboard. You ask your child to bring
you a tea cup. Your child goes into the cupboard, where there
are many different kinds of cups. The child takes one cup and
brings it to you. You, the mother, will know whether your child
has brought you the right cup. You then confirm the child