Mastery of Awareness
Life is filled with all kinds of adventures and experiences,
gifts and magic. Of all the gifts I have ever received in this
life time, the gift of the mastery of awareness is the one I
treasure the most. You might ask why that gift would exceed all
others. After all, wasn't that diamond ring wonderful and that
fabulous sports car I received fine? Wasn't that incredible
vacation or that great work bonus awesome?
Of course I have gratitude for all the gifts life sends my way.
Yet I've come to understand that material gifts have never been
mine to keep. The Angel of Death can take any of my material
belongings away but she cannot take my gift of awareness away
until the day I die. And, if I cultivate my gift of awareness
impeccably throughout my lifetime, it's even possible to take
that gift with me in my death. Truly it's a gift cultivated by
love and experience, patience and grace, and discipline and
will.
So how did I come to receive such a gift? Eight years ago I read
a book about personal freedom and the Toltec way. It revealed
something that seriously hooked my attention. It said I could be
happy, never having to live my life in reaction, jumping from
one fear-based emotional reaction to another. I asked myself if
it is actually possible to be happy no matter what circumstances
surround me. I wondered what my life would be like if I had
clarity in every moment. Was that something that was available
to a person like me? I decided to take action and signed up for
a spiritual journey with don Miguel Ruiz, author of "The Four
Agreements." That was the beginning of a lifetime journey of
self-discovery. In the years since, I've attended hundreds of
lectures and workshops and more than a dozen of these spiritual
journeys. No matter where I travel or how far I go I always end
up journeying deeper into my own heart. After all, where else is
there to go?
The last years of my apprenticeship with don Miguel have been
spent in "Dreaming." No, I am not talking about interpretation
of night dreams or lucid dreaming. The function of the brain is
to dream and we are dreaming all the time, both at night and
during the day. Toltec dreaming is a technique of mastering the
dream of your life. Another way of wording this is learning the
Mastery of Intent. Intent is the force that life uses to
manifest itself in this reality.
Sounds a bit like becoming the master of the universe, doesn't
it? Well from a certain point of view it is! If we master the
way we perceive the world and what we believe, we're the master
of our universe. Of course we can't change the fact that life's
happening around us, but we can change the way we react and the
way we choose to interpret what we perceive. But mastering
intent is getting ahead of things a bit. To be able to master
intent we first need to master awareness.
Awareness is the birthright of all life forms on the planet. The
key to mastering awareness is where we focus our attention.
Attention is the ability of the mind to discriminate between all
of the information obtained by the senses in any given moment.
If we focus our attention on the difficult things in our life
and the "bad" things that are always happening to us, life will
always look bad and difficult to us. If we focus on the beauty
and magnificence of creation, our life will always be beautiful
and magnificent, no matter what challenges life may bring.
If we recapitulated our lives, we'd see that we've been trained
to perceive our lives from a very particular point of view -
which is not necessarily the truth. This is due to our
domestication, our life experiences, and our wounding. By
viewing our life as if it were a movie, we can see the folly of
our behavior patterns and emotional reactions. For myself, I've
come to see that my understanding of my life isn't exactly the
truth, it's just a story. Now that I have awareness, I've taken
responsibility for the way I choose to perceive life, and the
way I behave in any situation. I can shift and focus my
attention in any direction I choose. Best of all, I never have
to be the victim of circumstances in life anymore! I make
choices with clarity and confidence because I see things the way
they are, not the way I want them to be.
Just to be clear, the only thing my teacher ever gave me was the
minimal chance to make these changes for myself. A teacher can
never do your transformational work for you. They can only shine
a light upon your path so you can see the possibilities of a
dream of unconditional love and beauty. It's up to you to have
the courage and fortitude to see things as they are and stop
lying to yourself. Taking action means taking chances, as spirit
may not knock twice on your door.
So has it been worth it? Absolutely, positively yes! Embarking
on the Toltec path has been the best experience of my life and
the mastery of awareness has been the most wonderful present
I've ever given to myself. And I am so worth it! I encourage you
to set out on your own path of self-discovery and awareness; I
guarantee it'll be your best gift too!