The DARAFAL-Formula - 7 Steps to Success in Life!

What do you really want in life? Think about it. Yes, you... yeah, YOU can have all this! You are free to achieve any goal! You can do anything! Don't believe it? That's OK! Just try it out! The DARAFAL-Formula works. And it also works for YOU! Imagine for one moment living the life of your dreams! Hmm, isn't it beautiful? And the best is... you can do it! YOU! And you don't have to wait! You can start right now! Here is your key to success. 1. D - Decide what you want This first step is vitally important. Why? Because you must identify what you WANT. We are so used to identify what we don't want that it may be unusual to decide what we want. But, what happens if we only say what we don't want? Well, our mind is a goal seeking mechanism. The subconscious mind does all to create what we want. Only, it can not distinguish between what we want and what we don't want. If you say "I don't want to be poor", the only thing your mind focuses on is the it-part, that means, your subconscious mind focuses on "be poor" and it says to itself, "OK, no problem, we can do that for you". And then you will be involved in actions making you poor. That's why it is so important to focus on what you want. If you say "I am rich" then your mind focuses on "rich" and again your subconscious mind says "OK, no problem, we can do "rich" for you" and you will be inspired to take actions that will make you rich. So, this first step is really important! Rather than to decide what you don't want, decide consciously what you do want. 2. A - Accept that this is possible for you Once you decided what you want to create in your life there may come thoughts like "You never gonna do that" or "That's impossible for you. You are not one of those successful persons" or "Stop dreaming! Come back to reality! This is nothing for you!" and so on and so on and so on. These thoughts are absolutely normal. Accept them as a natural defence mechanism. But why "defence mechanism"? The change is only for the best, so why do not allow this? What you are going to change is in fact a pattern of behaviour and a part of your mind is responsible to keep this pattern working in order to protect you. Only, that this pattern "protected" you from growing and kept you right there where you are now. This is because this pattern was useful maybe a long time ago to protect you from your environment or from other threats. But, these threats are no longer there and therefore these patterns are no longer useful. Because your mind tries to protect you, this part, responsible for this pattern, does all that those changes will not happen. When the changes happen, the pattern will be replaced by a new one and the guardian part of your mind that has protected this old pattern thinks that this is a threat and tries all to stop this evolution. This is called "self-sabotage" and represents the hardest part of the changing process. It is here where a lot of people stop changing because they believe these old pattern are right. KEEP IT GOING! Be aware of the fact that you can make those changes and that YOU DESERVE THEM! You deserve your new and much better life, so don't stop now and continue your new way! 3. R - Relieve all past limitations Maybe you are aware of the thoughts and feelings that keep you away from changing. If you identified them, you can say to yourself, loud and clear: "I release..." and then you fill in the thoughts and feelings that keep you back from changing. This is a very powerful technique and you will be surprised by its effectiveness. If you don't know exactly what thoughts and feelings keep you back from moving forward, then I suggest that on a regular basis you relax and when you are really relaxed you speak to all aspects of your mind and you tell them to relieve all past limitations. Trust yourself; it works when you do it on a regular basis. 4. A - Affirm your goals The key to success is the combination of affirmation, visualization and feelings. It is a proven fact that you attract what you believe. If you would like to know what your real beliefs are then look at your life and look at your body. Both reflect 100% your inner attitude. That means that your life reflects your thoughts and feelings. Ergo, if you change your thoughts and feelings, your way to see things then you can create consciously exactly the life you would like to have. Sounds too simple? Sorry, but it is like this! The secret to success and happiness is nothing more. One very important detail! It may sound strange and this is OK! You are not the victim of others! That sounds strange for the first time. You will say maybe: "Of course I am! He did this to me and because of her action I suffer now and because this and because that, I am now suffering and feeling bad!" April fool! This is one of the hardest pill to swallow. You crated that. Certainly not on purpose. No one creates his problems on purpose. You did it unconsciously because all of the inner values you accepted during your life. But, are those values really yours? Or did you accept them blind from an authority. The values of your parents, your teachers, ... don't have to be necessarily your own values. Maybe you live a life following others ideas. But if those ideas are not yours then they are empty and powerless. Only if an idea becomes a vision then it is powerful enough to change your life! Therefore it is so important to act rather than to react. If you give others the possibility to influence your feelings then you give them power over your life. You alone have the right to decide which feeling you allow in your life and which not. I know, this is really a hard thing to accept. But if you want to change your life for the best, you must work on this. But I am going to sweeten the pill for you. If you work with your affirmations, visualizations and feelings on a regular basis, you will see changes in your life very quickly! That gives you the power to continue your journey! To create powerful affirmations you need to know what you want. If you want to be more self-confident a possible affirmation would be i.e. "I choose to make it easy for me to be self-confident". If you want to be thin then a possible affirmation would be i.e. " I choose to achieve quickly and easily my perfect weight" (by the way, it would be better not to say that you want to loose weight because our mind is triggered to find what we lost. Imagine you lost your car keys. What do you want to do? You want to find them, to get them back. Our mind is trained trying to find what we lost. So, if you say that you want to loose weight, once you lost it your mind does all that it can to get the lost weight back to you). 5. F - Feel your intention already achieved The same time you say your affirmation, visualize it! See yourself in a situation where you are self-confident or see yourself in the perfect body you want to have. But, see yourself always in the first person perspective, that means, don't see yourself entirely like another one would see you, don't see you moving around like in a movie. You are not the spectator, you are the actor! See what you would see from your own eyes. Feel how good it feels! Feel the feelings you want to have. Feel how good it feels to be self-confident. Feel how good it feels to have the perfect body! Combine all these 3 sensations (affirmations, visualizations and feelings) and do this on a regular basis. Repetition, repetition and repetition! This is one of the keys to success! Do it every day in the morning after you awakened and in the evening before you fall asleep. Repetition is the way to mastery 6. A - Action! Now it is time to take action. That does not mean to do something only for doing it. No, I mean, take inspired action. Your subconscious mind leads you to the right opportunity. Once you feel an inner urge to do something then act at once. Even if you do not understand why, just do it. Follow your intention. You need to take action to achieve your goals, only your subconscious mind will show you the right ones to take! Trust yourself! If you feel that you have to see a special web site... just do it, if you feel you should have a look at a special book... just do it. Your subconscious mind will bring you in touch with the very best opportunity for you. 7. L - Let it go Now it is time to release your intention. Give it to the universe and let your subconscious mind attract the very best for you. This is a very important step. If you think all the time about your intention it can't develop itself. Let it go means let it grow. Trust your subconscious mind and don't stay attached to your intention. When you hold it, it just can't develop. So, let it go and trust you! Everyone is different, has a different history, different values and different goals. Therefore, one may achieve his goals faster than another, but, anyone can achieve his goals with the right mindset. There is no doubt about it! That means you can do it, too! To make it even easier to overcome self-sabotage and to influence your subconscious mind, I put together valuable tools on my web site. Each one of them has the ability to help you change your life! Only, because one is different from another, one tool may work better for person A and another tool will be better for person B. Just check them out, read them and if you feel that a tool could be perfect for you... cool! If not, stay motivated. You will find your right tool just at the right moment in time! www.101realsuccess.com