The DARAFAL-Formula - 7 Steps to Success in Life!
What do you really want in life? Think about it. Yes, you...
yeah, YOU can have all this! You are free to achieve any goal!
You can do anything! Don't believe it? That's OK! Just try it
out! The DARAFAL-Formula works. And it also works for YOU!
Imagine for one moment living the life of your dreams! Hmm,
isn't it beautiful? And the best is... you can do it! YOU! And
you don't have to wait! You can start right now! Here is your
key to success.
1. D - Decide what you want
This first step is vitally important. Why? Because you must
identify what you WANT. We are so used to identify what we don't
want that it may be unusual to decide what we want. But, what
happens if we only say what we don't want? Well, our mind is a
goal seeking mechanism. The subconscious mind does all to create
what we want. Only, it can not distinguish between what we want
and what we don't want. If you say "I don't want to be poor",
the only thing your mind focuses on is the it-part, that means,
your subconscious mind focuses on "be poor" and it says to
itself, "OK, no problem, we can do that for you". And then you
will be involved in actions making you poor. That's why it is so
important to focus on what you want. If you say "I am rich" then
your mind focuses on "rich" and again your subconscious mind
says "OK, no problem, we can do "rich" for you" and you will be
inspired to take actions that will make you rich. So, this first
step is really important! Rather than to decide what you don't
want, decide consciously what you do want.
2. A - Accept that this is possible for you
Once you decided what you want to create in your life there may
come thoughts like "You never gonna do that" or "That's
impossible for you. You are not one of those successful persons"
or "Stop dreaming! Come back to reality! This is nothing for
you!" and so on and so on and so on. These thoughts are
absolutely normal. Accept them as a natural defence mechanism.
But why "defence mechanism"? The change is only for the best, so
why do not allow this? What you are going to change is in fact a
pattern of behaviour and a part of your mind is responsible to
keep this pattern working in order to protect you. Only, that
this pattern "protected" you from growing and kept you right
there where you are now. This is because this pattern was useful
maybe a long time ago to protect you from your environment or
from other threats. But, these threats are no longer there and
therefore these patterns are no longer useful. Because your mind
tries to protect you, this part, responsible for this pattern,
does all that those changes will not happen. When the changes
happen, the pattern will be replaced by a new one and the
guardian part of your mind that has protected this old pattern
thinks that this is a threat and tries all to stop this
evolution. This is called "self-sabotage" and represents the
hardest part of the changing process. It is here where a lot of
people stop changing because they believe these old pattern are
right. KEEP IT GOING! Be aware of the fact that you can make
those changes and that YOU DESERVE THEM! You deserve your new
and much better life, so don't stop now and continue your new
way!
3. R - Relieve all past limitations
Maybe you are aware of the thoughts and feelings that keep you
away from changing. If you identified them, you can say to
yourself, loud and clear: "I release..." and then you fill in
the thoughts and feelings that keep you back from changing. This
is a very powerful technique and you will be surprised by its
effectiveness. If you don't know exactly what thoughts and
feelings keep you back from moving forward, then I suggest that
on a regular basis you relax and when you are really relaxed you
speak to all aspects of your mind and you tell them to relieve
all past limitations. Trust yourself; it works when you do it on
a regular basis.
4. A - Affirm your goals
The key to success is the combination of affirmation,
visualization and feelings. It is a proven fact that you attract
what you believe. If you would like to know what your real
beliefs are then look at your life and look at your body. Both
reflect 100% your inner attitude. That means that your life
reflects your thoughts and feelings. Ergo, if you change your
thoughts and feelings, your way to see things then you can
create consciously exactly the life you would like to have.
Sounds too simple? Sorry, but it is like this! The secret to
success and happiness is nothing more. One very important
detail! It may sound strange and this is OK! You are not the
victim of others! That sounds strange for the first time. You
will say maybe: "Of course I am! He did this to me and because
of her action I suffer now and because this and because that, I
am now suffering and feeling bad!" April fool! This is one of
the hardest pill to swallow. You crated that. Certainly not on
purpose. No one creates his problems on purpose. You did it
unconsciously because all of the inner values you accepted
during your life. But, are those values really yours? Or did you
accept them blind from an authority. The values of your parents,
your teachers, ... don't have to be necessarily your own values.
Maybe you live a life following others ideas. But if those ideas
are not yours then they are empty and powerless. Only if an idea
becomes a vision then it is powerful enough to change your life!
Therefore it is so important to act rather than to react. If you
give others the possibility to influence your feelings then you
give them power over your life. You alone have the right to
decide which feeling you allow in your life and which not. I
know, this is really a hard thing to accept. But if you want to
change your life for the best, you must work on this. But I am
going to sweeten the pill for you. If you work with your
affirmations, visualizations and feelings on a regular basis,
you will see changes in your life very quickly! That gives you
the power to continue your journey! To create powerful
affirmations you need to know what you want. If you want to be
more self-confident a possible affirmation would be i.e. "I
choose to make it easy for me to be self-confident". If you want
to be thin then a possible affirmation would be i.e. " I choose
to achieve quickly and easily my perfect weight" (by the way, it
would be better not to say that you want to loose weight because
our mind is triggered to find what we lost. Imagine you lost
your car keys. What do you want to do? You want to find them, to
get them back. Our mind is trained trying to find what we lost.
So, if you say that you want to loose weight, once you lost it
your mind does all that it can to get the lost weight back to
you).
5. F - Feel your intention already achieved
The same time you say your affirmation, visualize it! See
yourself in a situation where you are self-confident or see
yourself in the perfect body you want to have. But, see yourself
always in the first person perspective, that means, don't see
yourself entirely like another one would see you, don't see you
moving around like in a movie. You are not the spectator, you
are the actor! See what you would see from your own eyes. Feel
how good it feels! Feel the feelings you want to have. Feel how
good it feels to be self-confident. Feel how good it feels to
have the perfect body! Combine all these 3 sensations
(affirmations, visualizations and feelings) and do this on a
regular basis. Repetition, repetition and repetition! This is
one of the keys to success! Do it every day in the morning after
you awakened and in the evening before you fall asleep.
Repetition is the way to mastery
6. A - Action!
Now it is time to take action. That does not mean to do
something only for doing it. No, I mean, take inspired action.
Your subconscious mind leads you to the right opportunity. Once
you feel an inner urge to do something then act at once. Even if
you do not understand why, just do it. Follow your intention.
You need to take action to achieve your goals, only your
subconscious mind will show you the right ones to take! Trust
yourself! If you feel that you have to see a special web site...
just do it, if you feel you should have a look at a special
book... just do it. Your subconscious mind will bring you in
touch with the very best opportunity for you.
7. L - Let it go
Now it is time to release your intention. Give it to the
universe and let your subconscious mind attract the very best
for you. This is a very important step. If you think all the
time about your intention it can't develop itself. Let it go
means let it grow. Trust your subconscious mind and don't stay
attached to your intention. When you hold it, it just can't
develop. So, let it go and trust you!
Everyone is different, has a different history, different values
and different goals. Therefore, one may achieve his goals faster
than another, but, anyone can achieve his goals with the right
mindset. There is no doubt about it! That means you can do it,
too! To make it even easier to overcome self-sabotage and to
influence your subconscious mind, I put together valuable tools
on my web site. Each one of them has the ability to help you
change your life! Only, because one is different from another,
one tool may work better for person A and another tool will be
better for person B. Just check them out, read them and if you
feel that a tool could be perfect for you... cool! If not, stay
motivated. You will find your right tool just at the right
moment in time!
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