Life And Sharing
Life is very precious. We take everyday as if it does not
matter. Most of us do that. Ask a terminal patient, who has been
given only few days to live and you will realize the way we all
spend our life without truly valuing it.
Think of your own life. Imagine that you will be dying after a
week, strongly imagine that and watch your thinking. Your
priorities will undergo a very big change. Your first priority
may no longer be to finish that report, but call up few friends
and sharing your thoughts with them. Make a list of what all you
would wish to accomplish in the next seven days, before you die.
You will be surprised at your own list. You will realize the
difference between important and urgent immediately. All the
urgencies will become secondary and all the important tasks will
become primary.
Most of our urgencies relate to small things in our life, but
they eat away our vital living. Coming back to the title of this
article - sharing, what is it? Watch few married couples , or
few couples in love and observe the differences amongst all of
them. At one end, you will find couples who share everything in
life, even the smallest incident and detail. Who love to tell
each other about everything and at the other end, you will find
couples, who are not able to open up to each other at all. They
keep most of their life to themselves and go through the
relationship quite mechanically. Keeping every problem , every
emotion and every thought to themselves, the partners do not
talk to each other about anything other than what is needed to
carry on life. This is waste of life and this is waste of
relationship. This kind of life gives no inner satisfaction. It
is a very lonely existence with a pretense of living together.
Kindly look at the text on this ecard. It talks of what is love and sharing.
.You will find more of such cards that make us thinkmore of life and love here
Life is valuable and it has be enjoyed deeply. For that, a
couple has to be so open to each other that each one knows
everything about the other. Have you read about twins? You must
have. They behave similarly and think similarly. A couple may
not be able to reach that level of sharing, but surely to
somewhere closer to that. The problem with most of us is simple
- we are all running after a mirage. A mirage of happiness. We
believe that more money, more success, more technology and more
of everything will gives us more of living. The reverse is true.
Living is beyond all this outer paraphernalia. Living means
sharing and being truthful to oneself and each other. Only that
living satisfies. Begin thinking that you will die after seven
days and start writing about what all you would like to do in
this period to get some satisfaction while dying. Your
priorities will change dramatically. Please do this and find out
what is that in life, which makes our existence vibrant.