Sadness of love
Click any website that talks of sadness of love. You will get
moist eyes after some time. The quotes of some people about the
sadness they feel after losing love are very emotionally
shattering. Why should love bring so much sadness? When a loved
one leaves us for some one else, why do most of us feel
devastated? For many of us it is an earth shaking experience.
What was pure pleasure turns into absolute pain that is
unbearable.
Why does lost love bring so much sadness? A lover cries her/his
eyes dry with sadness, but the sadness does not go away. The
more one tries to avoid thinking of the lost love, the more
memories come back. Every spot where you shared something, every
road where you walked together, every incident that you shared,
they all become deep wounds that never heal. They take away the
essence of living. They leave one lost forever in sadness with a
loneliness that refuses to go away.
What do the people who leave their lover think after leaving? I
have no clue to that. But I know one fact. Such brutes try to
justify their action in many ways. This is their way of telling
their own conscience that what they did was correct. Though they
justify in many ways, I wonder if they ever are satisfied with
their own explanations? One great advantage such people who
leave a life sad is - They depart after giving so much pain that
the one who is left has no desire or energy to go back to them
and ask- Why? To meet one's lost love again may become very
frightening because of the pain given before. One may begin
perspiring at the very thought.
After knowing about this sadness, I can only say that one feels
that death is better than to live with such sadness. Life
becomes impossible. As there is no way to punish the brutes who
leave a life shattered, the only prayer one can make is - God,
please let her/him know about what she/he did. Please ask
her/him to repent and come back.