Online Dating-Why Older is Better
If you're over the age of 40, you may not think the online
dating scene has very much to offer you. Nothing could be
farther from the truth! Actually it has more to offer someone
who is older than the younger crowd. While younger people may be
more tech savvy, generally they also have more opportunities to
connect with people their own age.
Now that you are older and wiser, going out to bars filled with
the 20 something crowd may not be as appealing anymore. Meeting
someone online, your own age that you share common interests
with is a lot more interesting. After working all day, you can
come home to your computer and browse through thousands of
personal ads of people in your age bracket. You will find they
are like you. Single, divorced, with younger children, or older
children who are out of the house. You may find someone whose
children are grown and now they want their own time or are
looking for someone to travel with.
Most of us change as time goes on. We are not always the same
person we were 20 years ago. Our interests and values may have
changed. Yet we are faced with the same problems as others,
working fulltime, raising families, paying the bills. But yet
when it comes to dating and romance all the feelings,
insecurities and butterflies in the stomach will come rushing
back from your jr. high days. "Will she like me?" "does he think
I am pretty?" "why haven't I heard from him" Oh the joys of
dating. You may not think anyone will find you attractive now
that you are older, maybe a little heavier, little less hair.
But you have a lot to offer. You have a lot of history, many
life experiences that you can share. Maybe that is a good thing
to include in your profile- what have you learned now that you
are older and wiser.
When you create your profile it is important to include the fact
you have children and grandchildren. Prospective dates want to
know this information. At the same time you don't want to scare
anyone off, so if you 42 with 6 grandchildren you may just want
to mention the grandchildren without specifics, no matter how
proud you are. Also be realistic in what you are looking for and
your expectations. If you are a 54 year old male, don't start
answering the profiles of women in their 20's. They won't write
back.
So just because you are a few years older doesn't mean you can't
have a successful online dating experience. Answer a few ads,
meet a few people, go out, have fun!