10 Ways To Date Any Gorgeous Woman You Want
So, you're finding that gorgeous women flock to guys who are
major jerks? Big surprise. I thought that women, usually the
really good looking ones, were mainly attracted to dumb jocks
who treat them like garbage.
But you're a nice guy, right? Why is it that you can't seem to
catch a break with a great chick? Well, you can. Not by turning
into one of those dumb
jock-who-constantly-looks-at-himself-in-the-mirror types, but by
following 10 simple, common sense rules:
1. First, let me tell you, that a smart, gorgeous woman actually
likes a nice dude. Opening the door for her, picking up the
check, things like that, go a long way with these types of
women. A not-so-smart woman, will still want you to pick up the
check, but she's not really concerned with whether or not you
hold the door for her.
2. Ask about her. When you first meet Ms. Drop Dead Gorgeous AND
smart, ask her questions about herself. What does she do for a
living, and where did she grow up are run of the mill, average
dude questions. But ask her "What was the most valuable lesson
your mother ever taught you?", and watch her eyes light up with
intrigue. Ask her questions that will really make her think.
She'll remember you for asking those questions. Trust me. Your
interest in what really makes her tick, goes a long way.
3. When you ask her about herself, LISTEN to what she has to
say. When she tells you about the most valuable lesson that her
mother ever taught her, listen and be interested in what she's
saying. Ask questions about the answer that she's given you. It
shows that you really are paying attention.
4. Don't be a player. Smart, gorgeous woman can't stand a player.
5. Be up front. If you don't want to go to her girlfriend's
mother's post-surgery party, say so.
6. Be honest. Yeah, yeah, I know. Sounds like a no-brainer, but
you'd be surprised at the number of women who've dated men who
lie right from the jump. I've dated many gorgeous, smart women,
who've all said that the #2 thing on their "dump him" list is
lying. (Cheating actually tops that list...big surprise.)
7. Spend time with your friends, but don't make them the centre
of your universe.
8. Don't cling. A needy man isn't attractive to any woman, let
alone a smart gorgeous woman.
9. Have your own interests besides poker with the guys, and
Sunday afternoon football. What smart, interesting, gorgeous
woman, wants a boring, run of the mill man? Whether it's
building cars, or that trip that you're planning to Seattle, be
prepared to talk to her about what interests you.
10. Be attentive. There's a big difference between being
"whipped" and being attentive. Pay attention to what concerns
her. Is she exhausted from an unusually long day at work? Do
something special for her. Believe me, when you pay attention to
her, you get it back in spades.
Here's to great dating!
Chris A.Cameron
Copyright 2006 Chris Cameron All Rights Reserved