Why fortune really does favor the bold in dating
I've always loved the saying, "Fortune favors the bold." I
believe it was originally to attributed Julius Caesar, but it
probably predates even him. There's another version of it I like
even better, for dating purposes, and I heard this one from
Brian Tracey: "Act boldly and unseen forces will come to your
aid."
In my experience, both of these statements are absolutely true.
Whenever I've taken bold action, I've gotten big results. But
why does this happen... and how does it apply to succeeding with
dating beautiful, attractive women?
Usually I don't care about "why" something works, only that it
does. But, there is value at times in getting into the "why"
because it allows you to apply the "why" to other areas, and to
come up with even more powerful ideas.
Bold action, by its nature tends to attract attention. And no
matter how bright and smart you are, you simply cannot succeed
in life without the aid of others. The quality of boldness is
very attractive. Patton had it 100% right when he said, "America
loves a winner." One of the big qualities of winners is bold
action, and people are attracted to winners. Women are
interested in dating winners.
When you start doing a lot of bold things, you attract people
who want to be a part of what you're doing. Why? Because few
people act boldly, and they want to live vicariously through
those who do. Think about the guy you knew who boldly went up to
women. Every other guy wanted to hang around with him because he
had "balls." And more often than not, women responded very well
to him, and he got his outcome. Why? Because boldness is
attractive. This is a tremendous concept to get for your dating
life.
Now, don't confuse boldness with stupidity. I've known guys who
did stupid things boldly--and gotten the results they deserve.
Bold action should only be taken with good preparation backed up
by tested, proven knowledge. But, when you do study the area you
want to apply action to, in this case dating, when you prepare
diligently, you must act boldly and decisively when the
opportunity presents itself. And the more bold action you take,
the more opportunity will come your way... it's an amazing "self
feeding" mechanism.
So, prepare diligently, and act boldly-- unseen forces will come
to your aid... bearing desirable women, of course!