Organziation Tip - Getting Kids to Clean Rooms
I think we've all been there at one point in time. The toys are
spread out on the floor and it's time to pick up. You ask once
to clean up their toys only to hear protests and excuses. This
time "Because I said so" may not do the trick.
Here's some ideas on how to handle situations such as this:
1. Don't Give In This is an important one. They learn nothing if
you pick up their toys for them. Do not leave the room until the
job is done. If you pick up for them, they will never take you
seriously. Children even 2 years old can pick up after
themselves (I've witnessed this!)
2. Don't Take No For An Answer Back talking sould never been
accepted. If things begin to get out of control (fits, crying,
screaming, firm "no's"), a punishment is in order. Be firm, be
the parent. They might not be too happy with you at the moment,
but they'll thank you later on.
3. Make a Game If it's a daily struggle, try making a game out
of picking up. Give them a time limit, see how many of certain
toys they can put away, etc. The more fun for them the better
and easier it will be on all of you.
4. Take Away Toys If nothing else is working, don't be afraid to
remove toys. If they can't take care of it by putting it away,
they loose it. We have a special storage room just for "off
limit" toys.
5. Rewards If your children pick up without complaints and do a
good job, reward them. Bring back toys taken away, make a
special snack, play a special game. Stickers also make for nice
rewards if given in moderation.
While it may not be easy for any of you sometime, remember you
are the parent! Don't give up, raising children takes time. ;)