Easy Tips To Have Happy Relationships
Have you ever dreamed of having a magic to make your love last
longer? If there is a magic, love will be all around, no more
sorrow. Or maybe it's just that some people learn secrets of
success from their grandparents or other relatives or friends.
And since the latter is probably more accurate, here are some
tried and true tips from people who have enjoyed long, happy
relationships.
Dates: Keep dating each other. Even if life seems too busy, meet
at the end of the evening for something light and easy, like
viewing your favorite sitcom (record it if necessary) together
or playing a game of Euchre.
Space: Give each other some space. Either you trust or you
don't. Get on with life, though. People need time alone and time
with their mates and other friends. Be sure to give and take
your fair share of space.
Forget: No need to "always" remember the bad things that
happened during an argument. Actively "forget" sometimes. Be the
first to apologize and make up. Go for it!
Fun: Couple tends to have fun on dates, then get married and too
serious. Lighten up. Head to Yahoo Games (off http://Yahoo.com main site) and join
in any number of card or other games. Or head to a local rental
shop and rent an Xbox or other game player and some games.
Disagree: Agree that it's okay to disagree on some issues, and
leave it at that. No need to create a new religion or political
movement just to appease both of you. You don't have to agree on
everything. And you won't. And that's okay.
Refresh: Take time to look back, refresh your memories and share
what brought you together. Especially when times are difficult,
lean back and rely on these old memories as your foundation and
glue yourselves back together with them (not literally, of
course!)
Memories: Make some together. Enjoy special moments, special
anniversary dates and events. No need to be elaborate. For
example, maybe you enjoyed watching a hot air balloon race one
spring day. The next year, you might schedule time to watch it
again. Make it an annual event. Collect postcards with balloons
on the, playing cards, toss pillows...over time it becomes a
theme.
Start now with these simple ideas to keep your relationship with
your special person longer. Most important of all, couples can
happily stay together as they understand and complete each
other.