Dead End?
When we think we are at a dead-end, what to do? It may be that
we just really need to examine the situation and see if we
really are stuck in the mud or we just think we are standings
there spinning our wheels and accomplishing nothing at all. It
may not be a mistake that you have run out of options, it may be
that you picked the wrong goal in the process of building the
perfect you and this can happen and that is not that big of a
set back.
Sometimes you need to take a set back so in the next phase of
your journey you can take three steps forward. Examine what you
are doing and see if it really fits into your vision of the
perfect you, take a step back and see what it is you really need
to do in order to make this phase go forward or end it now and
move on too the next step.
Take some time, don't make any rash decisions, because you must
take a good look at where you are at, go to where their is
silence and try to understand what it is you are trying to
accomplish with this step. Take your time their is no hurry, the
last thing you need is to stop what you are doing and find out
later down the road that you where on the right path all the
time.
Then you will have to start that step over from the beginning
and that could be a waste of your precious time and that can get
costly when you make a few of them, you '11 find out that Joe is
much farther than you and he just started on his journey a few
short months ago. What we are trying to do is limit the amount
of mistakes you make, so that you can stay on whatever schedule
that you may have set up for yourself.
Let me stress here whatever pace you want to move at is fine.
Move at your pace and don't let anyone discourage you, or tell
you any different, because you are your own boss and only you
can decide what is good for you at any given moment, and things
will change moment to moment, and decisions are part of the
process in building the perfect you, you just need to try and
figure out what it is that you want and go from their.
Now don't think that you have it all figured out just yet,
what if it is a dead end? This is OK and you are going to have
them but in all reality, you are going to be disappointed and
down a bit :( If not then great you are getting close to the
prefect you that you know you can be. If on the other hand you
are discouraged and down, don't let it get to you, you are going
to have those rough and though times.
It's not always easy to make your way to the top or whatever
place it is you are going, you will have to give something up in
order to get something out of what you want and where you want
to go. So don't let those nasty little road blocks be the end of
your journey take the detour if at all possible and find a way
to get to the perfect you that you are seeing in your mind,
(Don't Let Go Of That Picture.)
Keep it at all cost if it is what you really want and you can
see yourself their you have won half the battle, so roll up
those sleeves and get ready to get your hands dirty, because now
you can start to have fun again. Either you have found out that
you need to take the detour or you have come to a dead end, in
either case you now know what to do!