How Women Can Cope Being Alone
Some women may experience the fear of being alone. In order to
help overcome this fear, here is a short list of techniques that
a women can use so that the fear of being alone doesn't become a
major issue in their lives.
Spending time with animals can be a great source of
companionship. Whether you have a dog or you go to your local
shelter, spending time with an animal or pet can help us to feel
better. Animals can be of good company to all of us whether we
are alone or not.
Find an activity that you enjoy and where you can meet a lot of
people. For instance, joining a group activity such as a
volleyball group, women's club, or making Crafts can be a great
way to meet people. Doing something that you like to do will
make you happy and will increase your chances of making friends.
Helping others through community service can be of some help.
There are many people out there who could benefit from your time
and talents. Helping others can give you a source of pride and
accomplishment and also can lead to friendships.
It isn't fun being alone, but sometimes there are worse things.
For instance, imagine that you are married or stuck in a
relationship that you can't get out of and also makes you
miserable. Not only do you have to live with this person, but
there is no way to get out of the relationship because of
various financial or personal reasons. As a result, you are
stuck living with someone that you can't stand and makes you
depressed every single day of your life. With this viewpoint,
being alone doesn't sound that bad.
For those of you who believe in God, spending time with God and
praying to him can help us in our lonely situation. Spending
time with God and asking God for help in our time of loneliness
can be of great comfort. You never know how God will work in
ones life. Ask him for help and trust that he will help you.
As a Layman, the important thing is to do something
constructive. Sitting around and doing nothing will not make
things any better whether its dealing with the fear of being
alone or something else. Take it one day at a time and stay
committed in trying to solve your problem.