Why discretion, in attraction, really is the better part of valor

A lot of guys get in trouble when they discover that, yes attraction CAN be created on demand, and that yes, you literally can attract more women than you know what to do with. Just because a thing can be done, attraction on demand, doesn't mean that it should be. Just because you can spend time with a new woman every week (or every day), doesn't mean you should. Why? Because, like I discover every year when football ends, there's a whole wide world of other things out there. Attracting women is NOT the end all, be all, indeed, it is only the means to an end, a skill that allows you choice in one important area of your life: relationships. Too many men go a little crazy when they discover they can create attraction on demand and it consumes their lives. Every single moment is spent trying to "pick up" another woman to the detriment of other aspects of life. You've got to manage the time you spend on attraction. To do so, you have to know your goals, not just with women, but in every aspect of your life. Once you do so, you can allot the correct amount of time to attracting women (or one special woman), so that it doesn't take away from everything else you want to do. It's important to me to be in good physical health, to have money, and to hang around people I enjoy spending time with. If I spend too much time on attracting women, then that would take away from those goals. If I spend just the right amount of time in the attraction phase, then that enhances those goals. I've always been a big believer that discretion is indeed the better part of valor, and the use of discretion is paramount in attracting women and achieving goals in other areas of your life. Sometimes it makes a lot of sense to stay in and work on a project that will bring you economic freedom instead of going out and attracting women that may bring you only fun in the moment. Attraction has it's place in my life, but doesn't dominate it. How you live your life, and what you accomplish is ultimately up to you, but I'd advise you to spend a little time and see how developing attraction skills and attracting women fits into it--because it certainly should. Spending no time on attraction is a very bad thing, but spending too much time on it is also bad--you need to determine for yourself the right amount of time to spend on it, so you can accomplish EVERYTHING you want to in your life.