Behold - the Mighty Baby Step!
Clutter? What clutter? My friend Chris eliminated a major
portion of the deeply entrenched clutter in her mountain home,
something she has intended to do for years! How did she do it?
By doggedly, persistently, taking small, do-able steps over the
course of about 6 weeks. She eradicated the piles of papers on
her floors and recycled the extra furniture and clothing that
she no longer liked or used. She bought color-coded storage
systems - drawers and bins and folders - and labeled and used
them. She completed items on old lists and got rid of the lists;
she kept newly cleared surfaces clear. As she persisted in this
project, week after week, something new emerged.
Her intention to "get rid of clutter" was replaced by an
energizing desire to bring beauty and harmony into her home.
This powerful positive inclination toward order, simplicity, and
esthetics took on life and momentum of its own. The universe
kicked in and began to cooperate with her. She became even more
motivated and effective with this additional energy.
Huge accomplishments are the result of a long series of small
steps. Individually, these steps look and feel quite humble. But
do not be fooled!The Mighty Baby Step is THE essential building
block of personal transformation, growth, and change. It is
enormously powerful and available to each of us, every day.
The most important step in any project is always the NEXT one.
That's where your power is; that's why I named my first
newsletter "Next Steps News." STAY PRESENT WITH THE TASK AT
HAND. Honor the Mighty Baby Step in front of you and honor your
intention to complete it. Resist the temptation to get
overwhelmed by the bigger picture: just don't let yourself go
there!
During my cycling training, I tended at first to be overwhelmed
by big hills. As I'd start uphill, I would look up and think,
"Whoa, that's steep! And long!" Being daunted by the hill made
my actual ascent more difficult than it had to be; I would
struggle all the way up. I learned to stop looking at how steep
and how long the hill was, to keep my attention glued to the
present. "THIS pedal stroke is fine, I can totally do this. I
have breath and stamina in reserve; no problem, really. I even
have a couple more downshifts in reserve if I need them. . . .
And now THIS pedal stroke is fine. . . ." And so forth. After a
short while I was just pedaling up the hill, breathing into my
level of exertion, noticing the wildflowers on my right,
appreciating the breeze, wondering whether I'd overtake the
rider ahead of me. Letting go of the fear helped me just DO the
next step.
I also tended to get daunted by the big picture. I would think,
"54-year-old slightly overweight non-athlete woman will ride a
2-day cycling endurance event. How likely is that?" When my mind
went off in that direction, my job was to bring my attention
back to the immediate challenge. On any given training day, I
wasn't DOING the 2-day endurance event. I was doing TODAY's
30-mile ride or today's hill drill. Or watching TODAY's food
intake. That's all. And today's challenges were always
manageable.
The next step inevitably has its own challenges - you don't need
to add negative emotion to it! That kind of emotion just creates
more work. Clear the clutter from your head, and JUST DO THE
TASK. Left, right, left, right. As much as you like to analyze .
. . there comes a time to just do it, thank you, Nike. Once in
motion, you are likely to generate positive emotion and energy
which can inspire, fuel, and profoundly support your continued
action.
WHAT ARE YOU WORKING TOWARD? Is your goal better health? Every
step you take in that direction makes a difference. Every time
you forego salty fried food in favor of lean protein or lightly
prepared veggies - every time - you move forward toward your
goal. Every time you go for a brisk evening walk instead of
sitting around, you are taking a Mighty Baby Step. These small
moves are cumulative, and over time they land you closer to your
goal than if you had not taken these steps at all.
COACHING TIPS
1. Know what your goal is. Put it into your own words.
2. Know what the next step toward that goal is. Go as small and
local as you need to! (For me, this was, "Do today's ride." Or
closer-up: "Get up this hill." Or even closer: "Take this pedal
stroke.")
3. Take that next step.
4. Go back to 2 if you can, or if you've forgotten what you're
doing, go back to 1.
5. Support yourself along the way:
a) Keep yourself un-daunted.
b) Credit yourself for being in the game.
c) Know that every step counts. Remember the tortoise and the
hare.
d) Honor where you are in the process, and don't judge it.
If you're considering hiring a coach to help you with challenges
like these, contact me at sharon@stcoach.com for an initial
consultation at no charge.
Copyright 2003 Sharon Teitelbaum. All rights reserved.