15 Hot Tips to Make Your Romance Sizzle
Is your romance with that special someone cooling off? Do you
worry that the spark is going to go out? Look no further. Here
are 15 hot tips to make your romance sizzle.
1. Use edible pain to create masterpieces on each other's
bodies. If you don't have or can't find edible paint, use
chocolate syrup or whip cream.
2. If you are looking for action later in the evening, eat a
light dinner for a better ability to perform.
3. Create a fantasy box. Cover an old shoe box with white paper
and use markers to paint some romantic scenes or hearts on it.
You and your partner should write fantasies on slips of paper
and put them in the box. When you are both in the mood, draw out
a fantasy and make it into a reality.
4. Have your partner close their eyes, or blindfold them and
then experiment with sensations. Use a feather, aromatherapy
oils or ice to enhance their pleasure. Rub their lips with ice
until they are cold and then kiss them with your warm lips. This
is very erotic.
5. Go a little crazy and plan a sexual adventure. Make a date
when each of you comes prepared for a sexual fantasy. You can
dress in costumes or use sex toys to spark the enthusiasm.
6. Set the mood. Use aromatherapy candles and romantic music, or
dim the lights and spend time together sipping a glass of wine.
Fireplaces are romantic as well. Light a fire and cuddle up on
it with your partner and then seek out all of those pleasure
spots. Making love before a fire is very romantic.
7. Ladies can wear sexy lingerie - not. Go out to dinner and
tell your partner about your bare essentials. If you can give
him a peek without allowing others a glimpse, use the situation
to your advantage.
8. Put a drop of edible oil in your partner's favorite flavor
someplace on your body that you know they will lick. This gives
a pleasant surprise and stimulates sensitivity.
9. Take your partner shopping...for sex toys. If you are
embarrassed to go into a sex toy shop, do your erotica shopping
online. There are a wide variety of sites that offer sex toys
that will add romance to any couple's life.
10. Experiment with a vibrator. Each person can use it on the
other to find those "pleasure spots." Once you find them, return
to them time after time for a sensual lovemaking experience.
11. Delay orgasm. Enjoy the eroticism and sensuality of the sex
act itself. When you finally do reach your orgasm, it will be
extremely intense and pleasurable.
12. Be sure to take gender into consideration. Women like to be
aroused slowly. Partners shouldn't go directly for the clitoris
or nipples. Men, on the other hand, have only one area that is
extremely sensitive to stimulation; the genitals. To be sure
that both partners enjoy the act of lovemaking equally, the
woman should provide manual stimulation while the man slowly
brings her to arousal.
13. Take the chance and enjoy the thrill of having sex in a
forbidden place. Take your partner parking in a secluded area
and make love in the car. Lovemaking in dangerous places
stimulates both male and female partners.
14. Make eye contact during lovemaking and especially during
orgasm. This enhances both the intensity and intimacy of
lovemaking.
15. Explore each other's body to find pleasure spots that will
send your partner into ecstasy. If you and your partner enjoy
oral sex, explore each other's body with your tongues. This can
be very sensual to those who enjoy it.
Use your imagination to bring romance and sensuality into your
life. Find out what your partner likes best through trial and
error, or simply ask them what they like to do in the lovemaking
department. You might be surprised at how much your relationship
will heat up. Keep it sizzling.