A Great Way To Last Longer In Bed - That 99% Of Men Have Never
Even Tried!
Ever heard of arousal step-down techniques?
How about the PC muscle and Kegels?
If you're like most guys, you probably haven't. And as such,
most men - unaware of the numerous ways they can boost their
sexual skill and 'lasting' power - regularly produce mediocre
performances in bed, leaving themselves disappointed and the
women they're with disillusioned and usually orgasmless. It's a
real shame.
In a poll, 93% of men asked, said they'd like to last longer in
bed before ejaculating - but 100% of those men were unaware of
how they could achieve such a seemingly impossible feat.
The truth is, it's not impossible (or even difficult) to
maximise your sexual performance and attain complete control
over how long you boogie for and generally get on down with the
ladies.
So, let's take a look at one sexual method that'll allow you
massive control over your arousal levels and always give you the
choice of when to cum or when to continue.
During sex, most men begin to lose control of themselves (in
terms of ejaculation!) at around the 2 or 3 minute mark - which
is usually midway through the first sexual position. And what a
letdown ejaculating at this point would be! So, that's usually
the first point at which you'll use this technique. It involves
two steps. The first takes place in your mind - which is the
root of many a male's sexual performance troubles.
1. When you first feel those telltale sensations in your penis
(the heightened sensitivity and energy that let you know that if
you carry on doing what you're doing you'll soon explode) don't
panic! Too many men are pushed over the edge, right to
ejaculation, because they mentally begin to panic when they feel
they're close to orgasm. Panic phrases rush through their heads,
like: "Uh oh, I'm gonna blow!" and "Not again, this is going to
be embarrassing." Instead of letting these counter-productive
thoughts fill your mind and quicken the onset of orgasm, instead
calmly say in your head: "Okay, I'm close to ejaculating. Time
to use an arousal step-down technique." Then move onto step
number two.
2. The most sensitive part of your penis is the top of the shaft
and especially the head. To decrease its stimulation (without
stopping the 'action') slowly and deeply thrust into your
partner, as far as you can go and she can pleasurably take.
Then, gently grind your hips, wiggling your pubic bone (the hard
area above your penis, about 8 inches down from your belly
button) on her vagina. To her, this seems and feels like a
wonderful stroke variation, which gives her external clitoral
stimulation (the number one way to make any woman orgasm).
However, behind the scenes, it's momentarily decreasing your
stimulation, enabling you to last longer. This happens because
when you plunge deep into her, your penis enters a wider area of
her vagina, which lessens its contact and stimulation.
Then, to cap it off, you grind and wiggle, instead of thrusting
in and out, which further decreases the intense sensations of
sex. After 30 seconds or so, your arousal levels will have
dropped enough for you to restart your thrusting.
By using this technique, you're able to control your urge to pop
without stopping sex and while giving your partner extra sexual
stimulation. Now how much better a technique is that for
tackling premature ejaculation when compared to what most people
consider to be effective techniques? Things like: "Count
backward from 100" and "Think of dead puppies!"
Sex, as you well know, is all about fun. Using the 2-step
technique above, you can fully enjoy the experience - without
the worry of it all being over too soon!