9 Irresistible Flirting Tips - How To Sizzle and Dazzle the
Opposite Sex
You don't have to be a movie star look-alike to sizzle and
dazzle the opposite sex. All you need is a genuine sweet looking
smile plus a few irresistible flirting tips.
1. For women, we preen or groom ourselves subconsciously when we
are attracted to someone - by smoothing down our hair or
clothes, checking our lipstick, or straightening a tie. Combine
your grooming gesture with a smile and a gaze. You can also toss
your hair to one side - a combination 1-2 punch of preening and
a flash of neck.
2. A genuine, friendly smile is you're most powerful. Behavior
experts agree that a smile makes you more attractive and
approachable. Guys, if a woman lock eyes and smiles with you
three or more times in an evening, you have been given an
unmistakably clear signal that she's interested. Make your move,
if you don't, somebody else will.
3. Gaze the eyes with the person you're flirting with for a full
five to six seconds, smile and then drop your fix. Do this at
least three times in a ten to fifteen-minute period. Your target
needs to know you are flirting with him; making eye contact is a
universal signal of openness.
4. One of the more successful flirting techniques a woman can
employ is to expose her neck. A head tilt, the classic hair
flip, or the over-the-shoulder glance attracts men's attention,
exposes your neck, and gives you the opportunity to lock eyes.
The over-the-shoulder move is extra-effective because it's sexy
and sends a signal to your target that they are worth a second
look.
5. Members of both sexes are subconsciously attracted to red,
moist lips because they signal youth, sex and fertility. Red
also increases a man's heart rate. How to capitalize on it?
Wearing a red lipstick gives women's lips not only a youthful
color but also a more obvious smile and whiter teeth. Using a
super-shiny lip gloss makes your lips look moist and kissable.
Men or women should lick their lips subtly (you don't want to
look like you're trying out for a porno flick) or bite the lower
lip - both are extremely effective flirting behaviors.
6. Men should stand tall with the shoulders pulled back and
squared; women are biologically attracted to more dominant men.
Feel free to take up some space.
7. For women, crossing and uncrossing their legs is a surefire
flirting technique, especially if you're wearing high heels. A
woman crossing her legs appears seductive to men and it makes
them desire to see more. Slipping the heel out of your shoe and
dangling it on your toes is another trick. The arch of a foot
sends a sexual message and mimics a woman's curves, and makes a
man's heart race.
8. Once you and your flirting target start talking, the next
step is to intensify the attraction. How? Smile and maintain eye
contact, focus all of your attention on what they say. No one is
more attractive than someone who gives you an undivided
attention. Employ the nod and head tilt techniques. Smiling and
laughing are crucial at this point - it the quickly puts the
other person at ease. Making low-level contact by brushing the
shoulder or elbow is another effective flirting technique.
9. People mirror each other's body language - gestures, voice
volume, posture, etc when they are attracted. Very subtly mirror
your flirting target's behavior - if she leans forward, lean
forward; if he scratches his head, scratch your head. When you
mirror someone's behavior, they'll begin to feel, think and
believe as though the two of you are connected.
Men's flirting styles go a little further, they demonstrate
their social status with moves that may include flashing cash,
talking about their occupations, cars, and other toys for the
big boys aside from the signs mentioned above.
Look for the signs above, especially extended eye contact,
low-level touching, laughing, and you will surely know that a
woman is flirting with you.
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