The Comfort Level
You enter the Comfort phases
once she is attracted to you (A2) and you have convinced her
that you are interested in her for reasons she thinks are valid
(A3). In other words:
1. You enter Comfort as soon as you both accept that you
are attracted to each other. 2. You leave Comfort (and go
into Seduction) as soon as you escalate to sexual touching.
Comfort is the missing ingredient that allows you to convert
mutual attraction into sex. Comfort changes her from "I want him
but I don't know him well enough" into "I want him". Sounds
easy, doesn't it? By itself, it is. Most men can make a woman
feel comfortable with them if they're not trying to have sex.
(Sex comes in the Seduction phase, so don't worry about sex for
anything in the Comfort phases). However, you have three things
working against you.
* You never know how much comfort is enough. Not enough comfort
before you shift into Seduction, and you're a horny loser. Too
much comfort before you make a move, and you're a pussy. This
used to be a big trap for guys, but Mystery has a secret here,
that we'll share with you in a minute.
* You can't focus only on comfort. If you spend all of your
effort making her feel so comfortable and safe around you, and
none maintaining the tension and intrigue that you created in
the Attraction phases, then she'll get bored and you'll lose
her. On the other hand, rocking the tension too high in comfort
will feel awkward and out place, and also destroy any comfort
you've built up.
* You have to escalate kino (touching). This is important
preparation for Seduction. In theSeduction phases, you will
obviously need to be touching her in an increasingly sexual way.
Maybe you figure that that's Seduction, and you don't have to
worry about it while in Comfort, right? Wrong. It's hard enough
in Seduction to shift from non-sexual touching to sexual
touching. It's infinitely harder in Seduction to shift from no
touching at all to sexual touching. You're setting yourself up
for failure in Seduction if you don't do the groundwork in
Comfort
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