A Little Creativity in an Old Process
Naming your child is never an easy process. Not only is there
pressure from your family and friends, but society will also
help accept or disprove of the child's name very quickly. There
are so many possibilities and options, like naming it after a
loved one, or famous person, or literary icon, etc. But
hopefully, above all, there is one thing you will be with the
name: creative. Sure a lot of the common names are nice, and you
shouldn't have to look them over just because they are common,
but keep in mind there is much more out there than just what you
may be familiar with.
First and foremost you have to think about how it will affect
the child. Let's face the facts about this. Your name is one of
the first impressions you will have on another person. It may
seem that it's just a word or two, but it can give potential
acquaintances and more a look at your family history, culture
and upbringings, and tell them just how you might stand in the
world.
Therefore you want a name for your child that will stick out in
a good way from others. Sure you can't tell how your child will
turn out, what personality and likes they will have, or even if
they will like their own name, but you can know how good the
name sounds and how people react to it beforehand. You want to
find a name that will get them the kind of reaction you think
they deserve. Any parent that would want people to react badly
to the name shouldn't be a parent, so let's only consider the
positive reactions.
As a baby, you will probably want people to think "that's a
pretty" name for a girl or "that's a cute name" for a boy. These
are great reactions to have, as they not only tell you that you
chose wisely but also that they already are becoming a bit
affectionate towards your child. Of course you have to consider
what the reactions will be when the child grows up. You want a
name that will not get them insulted or picked on by peers in
school. You want a name that will make people take them serious
in work.
You could go with a classic, simple, overused name that you
already know will work, but why? Why make your child one out of
ten Rachel's or Matt's or anything like that when you already
have a good chance knowing they won't be the only one with the
name? I can tell you from firsthand experience it can be dull
have a very common name. My name is Jacob. It is the most
popular male's name since 1999. Sure it is a nice sounding name
and I was named before it was this popular, but it can still
make me feel like just one person in a crowd when I notice that
there are many other guys named that in my school classes or
work.
Think of something new. This can be done in many different
ways. First, the most simplest, is just finding new ways to
spell the name. Sure pronunciation-wise there is nothing new or
creative about it, but if the name already means that much to
you even though it may be common, you shouldn't have to at least
consider it. Give it a chance and revive it a little for the
next generation.
You can also adapt and play with familiar names. Add onto them,
combine them, subtract from them. There are so many
possibilities. Just keep in mind you want something that will
have a positive effect when people hear and read it. Don't make
it too long or too strange. This is also important when you
choose a new word to become a name. You want something that
could pass for a name, not something that just sounds different.
Whether it is in your native language or in some other language
you enjoy, using common and even uncommon words for names is a
great thing. You could make something new yet familiar to people
when they hear it. Maybe its not so familiar or even quite rare,
yet has a nice meaning and flow to it.
There is also the opportunity to completely make up the name.
Start from scratch, create something truly unique, entertaining,
inspiring, positive for your child. You can give them a strong
foundation to create who they are. This is not an easy task of
course and can be very confusing where to go, but try to at
least come up with something on your own. Start with letters you
like and syllables that sound good. Even if the name or names
you come up with isn't used, it may help you realize other names
that you enjoy and would like to give to your child.
Lastly, don't be afraid to pitch your name ideas to others.
Feedback before the name is confirmed will give you the truth.
Most people may not want to insult the child's name once they
are born. It's a very serious process when you consider all the
effects it could have on your child. Hopefully you can make it a
fun and creative one too!
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