Cheating Wives -
Do wives cheat on their husbands? You better believe it and the
number that do is probably much higher than you might think.
Some studies suggest that the number of married women who have
an affair at some point could be as high as 60% but the average
seems to be around 35% and still climbing. While men often go
looking for an affair, for women affairs seem to 'happen',
usually during a period when their marriage or relationship is
under stress. A man goes looking for an affair for excitement
and the thrill factor while the typical woman falls into a
relationship because she is vulnerable and finds emotional
support that she may not be getting from her husband. Obviously
there are some women who do go looking for an affair simply for
the thrill factor but they are in the minority. That means that
it is possible to reduce the risk of your wife straying into the
arms of another guy so let's look at some of the reasons women
wander and things you can do to prevent it. Quite a few guys
come to me after they have ended their marriage because they
have found that their wife was cheating and it seems that the
most common scenario is where the marriage has simply become too
comfortable. Everything seems fine, she doesn't complain if you
spend all your time in front of the television and she doesn't
give you a hard time when you go out with the boys. You mightn't
be having sex all that often but no one is complaining and
everything is coasting along. While many women have no problems
there are a lot who feel that this sort of relationship
indicates that their husband has lost interest in them and they
no longer have their man's emotional support. That emotional
support is so very important and a girl will go looking for it
if she isn't getting it at home. To avoid this sort of problem
spend time with your partner, talk to her, encourage her to
share her day with you, be her friend and not just a guy with
whom she shares a house. Make her the most important person in
your life and make sure she understands that and finally have
sex when you're awake, not just at the end of the day when it's
just a quick fumble before you fall asleep. Sex is a very
important part of a relationship but some guys seem to make it
the focal point and that can be a serious mistake. Wild sex in
all its variations night after night does not keep your partner
from straying. Certainly she will enjoy it but a woman needs
something more than an incredible orgasm every 24 hours and even
wild sex will not keep her from wandering. If your partner is
suggesting to you that there are nights when she would just like
to snuggle up with you or spend the evening talking then you are
hearing some of the warning signs. As I said earlier, men often
look for affairs for the thrill and the passion while most women
fall into affairs because they are vulnerable. She may well feel
that the only reason you keep her cumming every night is because
you want to get your rocks off and not because you want to spend
time with her. A woman needs to be courted every single day, she
needs to be convinced that her partner loves and cares for her
and is attracted to her and that she means more to him than
being just a convenient sex object. Girls who don't get this
sort of reassurance will find it elsewhere no matter how good
the sex may be. Some guys can't cope when their wives go back to
college or return to the workforce. Suddenly they feel that
every predatory male will be sniffing around their lady and they
feel that their relationship is in danger. The ironic thing here
is that this is probably the least dangerous time in a
relationship. The bored wife at home is far more likely to stray
than the eager girl who is far more interested in establishing a
career than falling into an affair. The problem here is that
guys in this situation often behave like jealous idiots and do
far more damage to their relationships than they realize. It is
far better to talk to your partner about your concerns than to
hide them and let them fester until they explode and ruin
everything. By talking calmly and quietly to your partner about
your concerns you show her that you really care about her and
believe me, you will help her see how you really feel about her
and you will win more brownie points than you ever thought
possible.