Penis Size: Are you for Length or Girth?
Penis Size There are few men out there who have not at least
once in their lifetime ever taken out a ruler and measured their
male member. A quick peek through history will tell you, poets,
philosophers, writers and artists alike have all tried to define
the average and above average penis size measure for manhood.
Erotic art is full of examples of exaggerated manhood, because
it is generally believed that the penis mirrors a guy's sexual
power and vigor. It's not difficult to see why bigger is still
thought to be better even in this so-called new millennium.
So going back to the age-old question; "does penis size really
matter?" Both men and women alike are desperate to know what
really gives. Men are equally obsessed, if not more so, with
their penis size as women are with their breast size. In fact a
lot of them are keen on finding out ways to make their member
larger. That explains why the penis enlargement industry is
booming by leaps and bounds, offering everything from cream,
pills, traction devices, and even surgery. The media and the
fanatical stories of 'well-endowed' men have probably
contributed to the already bizarre subject of penis size.
Studies show that the average penis size is not the 12" poles
being bandied about in porn. Actually average is between 5.5 to
6.4 inches in erect length and 4.7 to 5.2 inches in girth. Now
there's one myth that needs to be put to rest: penis size is
completely unrelated to height or hand, feet, and nose size
simply because there is no bone in the penis.
You probably heard it from countless women that "it's not the
size that matters but how you use it." Though the length of the
penis has not much to do with sexual pleasure, girth on the
other hand may indeed matter in the long run. As what some
reproductive therapists explain countless times, it has
something to do with stimulating our G-spot which is supposed to
be located about two inches inside the upper wall of the vagina.
Anyway, personal preference is still based on the individual
woman, some may like big while others small. When we ask a woman
what does she prefer over penis length and penis girth, Courtney
(not her real name), said that she likes her partner to have
"meatier" penis, meaning fuller penis. She said that the nerves
in her vaginal walls (located near the entrance of the vagina
and the anus) are better stimulated during intercourse. Thus,
girth might be significant here given that a meatier penis can
stretch out the vaginal or anal walls that stimulate the nerves.
This creates friction and sensation that most women crave during
intercourse. She further added that even though the penis is the
vital equipment in love making, it's also the combination of
skill, passion and romance that heightens the sensation
regardless of penis size.
To say that men who have a small penis size are no good in the
sack is a hasty generalization and just short of discriminating.
In general, women are more concern about the man's entire
package, rather than just the one between their thighs. Women
also seek passion, intimacy and emotional connection. Try to
show her your love by giving her flowers, a sensual massage, or
a bath with rose petals.