Bring Love into Your Life
So many people are complaining about the lack of love in their
life. They act as if some stranger decided one day to take away
the love out of their lives. They hold on to lovers already gone
since eternity, or they dream about a partner coming into their
life to give them everything they are not able to give
themselves. They balance between hope and desperation. They look
for love outside themselves and believe one day a charming
prince on a white horse will knock at the door and take them
away to live for ever happy in a castle for away from reality.
Other people are trying to survive in a bad relationship that
holds their greatness hostage. They live in fear and anger every
day but don't know how to get out of this prison.
Do you know such people? Does this sound like you? Do you feel
lonely, are you dreaming of the right one who will show up one
day and end all the misery you're going through now?
The bad news is this will not happen. The good news is YOU can
do a lot yourself to feel loved.
Let me explain. Life is like a building. There are a lot of
floors : the ground floor, the cellar, the first floor, second
floor and so on. The higher you go in the building, the more
light there is, the easier and lighter things are, the more
friendly and energetic people are, the higher are the vibrations
and most of all : the more love there is.
Picture this building of life in your mental eye. In the cellar
you will find people like rapers, thiefs, harassers, killers,
people who beat their children or companion and others who made
a life out of hurting others. On the groundfloor you will find a
lot of people. In fact most of humanity lives here. These are
the ones who content themselves by vegetating instead of living.
They don't think by themselves, they undergo life. They do
nothing. They live like robots. They go to their job every day,
come home every day, watch the same television program every day
with a beer in one hand and a hotdog in the other hand. They do
not dream. They are stuck in their lifestyle and think
everything will always be the same.
Then you go up. As I said, the higher you get, the easier, the
lighter life is. Life IS easy, life IS light. The cellar,
groundfloor and lower floors are creations from the human mind.
We created these lifestyles by our heavy thoughts, thoughts
about scarcity, fear, death, anger, sadness, revenge and so on.
Here are the lives of those who choose to think low energy
thoughts. Those who live in fear, hate, jealousy, doubts, low
self esteem, troubles. Those have bad relationships, where
struggle and anger and negativity set the tone. They are not
happy. They maintain the illusion everything is someone else's
fault and they have either to wait for the other to change, so
their life will change, or they have to destroy the other one to
have a better life (think of the one who kills the husband of
the woman he wants to live with, or those who kill other minded
people in order to be free to live like they want). This will
never give freedom or love.
So what to do if you want to move up in that building of life
and live free and in love?
First you have to make a decision. Yes, you have to decide WHERE
you want to be. On which floor do you want to live your life now?
Is it the cellar? No, I don't think so. Is is the groundfloor? I
don't think it either. Let's say you want to be at the 17th
floor. But you feel you are at this moment in your life at the
3rd floor only. You hate your job, you have a lousy relationship
with your partner, you're in bad shape and your energy is low.
So you decided you wanted a life in the vibration of the 17th
floor, where there is love, real friendship, positive
expectations, inner strength, power, a job you like, health and
wealth.
What to do? You decided where you want to be. What you will do
now? Should you wait until someone will knock on your door to
take you there? No way! Will never happen! Even if you would
meet someone with an energy level of 17, he will never carry you
from the 3rd to the 17th floor, because he will be exhausted. It
needs to be YOUR decision and YOUR action!!
So YOU have to move yourself up. How? Read! Read more! Read how
you can create your life by changing your thoughts and your
behavior! Go to workshops where you can learn how to unleash you
inner power. Use the wonderful information bank which is called
Internet and which offers you a bunch of positive information
and e-courses (often for free). Surround you with loving people.
Learn how to love yourself.
So first you decide where you want to be. Than you do whatever
you can to get there, on your own. You may ask help of course,
you may find yourself a coach (which is really a good decision!)
but don't look for somebody to carry you. You will fall down
immediately the moment he puts you down. If you didn't get there
by yourself, it won't last, it is not worth anything because you
moved yourself up with somebody else's energy and you are
depending on his energy.
Once you get at the floor of your choice, let's say 17, you will
meet automatically people who vibrate at this level of energy.
Energy-17 people. Loving, caring, wonderful people. People who
feel good about themselves and who don't need others to steal
their energy. They learned how to generate energy by themselves.
They are not slaves. They are not dominators. They love and
respect others.
Do you want to meet someone like that? Do you want to share your
life with somebody who has a 17-energy (or more)? Go there! Go
at their level and you will meet them, that's a guarantee!
Move yourself up.
If you live in a bad relationship right now, and you do whatever
you can to get yourself moving higher, you will see what will
happen. Your partner, who is still vibrating on energy 3 or 2 or
on cellar-level won't be able to follow you and you will take
separate roads.
Don't make the mistake of trying to pull someone up who wants to
stay at his low level. You will never succeed. Especially women
should be aware of this : don't spoil your energy at trying to
get others moving up with you. It's a waste of time. Everybody
should decide for himself. Don't carry others on your back, you
will crack down! Decide for yourself, go for it, and see what
happens. The higher you get in energy-levels, the better it will
be. There you will agree with me : life is wonderful!