Dating Etiquette
How many times have you watched one of those dating shows on TV
and thought, "I can't believe he/she just did/said that?!?!" To
avoid making similar mistakes on your next date, stick with some
of the following ideas...
Eye contact is crucial when dating, so it is good etiquette to
provide as much attention as possible to your date. They should
feel as if they are the only person in the room. Be a listener
and do not talk your date to death, particularly if you are
male. Listening shows interest and the ability to compromise. If
your idea of a date is talking about yourself and your opinions
all night then do your date a favor and stay at home alone.
Be courteous and complimentary. Your date has made an effort for
you and your personal opinions aren't quite welcome at this
stage. Also to this end, always turn up for a date unless you
have given plenty of time for it to be cancelled. Standing
someone up is rude, and not appropriate adult behavior. Try to
turn up on time, and don't keep your date waiting. If your
transportation is unreliable, get going in plenty of time. Being
punctual shows respect for your date and shows your
responsibility.
Try to avoid being opinionated or arrogant on a date and try to
avoid discussions about politics and religion on the first date.
You will come across badly to your date if you act like this.
Additionally, don't be rude to others on a date. You are trying
to show your good side, so arguing about a service charge or
whether the wine is chilled enough will make you look like a
fool. And remember...arguing with the waiter is a big no-no.
In terms of appearance, make an effort to dress well. There is
no excuse to look bad. Poor dress shows laziness and will do
nothing to promote you. Also, try to be fresh and smell good.
You should be shaven, bathed and smell good. It will cost you
nothing more than a bottle of quality cologne and some shower
gel. Just make sure not to over-do it with the cologne!