Longer Lasting Sexual Experiences
I heard a well-known psychologist state, "a man falls in love
with the way his woman makes him feel when she's around him." As
a husband and father of three, I say, "Yes, that's true!"
But, how do you make her feel?
There are many qualities that make a good man - providing for
your family, being a good parent, being the spiritual leader of
your family, and so on...
However, like many men, I am also fixated, to a degree, on how I
look and how I perform sexually. I'm not sure where this comes
from in men, but I know that I am not alone.
I've heard women state, "size doesn't matter." I've also heard
women refer to their lovers as, "minute men." I know personally,
and because my wife and I do share our feelings with one
another, truthfully, that size and duration of sex does matter,
for her. I suspect she is not alone either.
So personally, this is one more area where I strive to make my
wife happy. I'll correct myself. As she would say, "it's not
that I'm unhappy. I'm just happier, now."
In order for anyone to apply any of what I write, it is
important that first, you and your partner communicate. And, you
must both be TRUTHFUL.
So, does your wife think penis size is important? Here's a
little scenario to see for yourself, if your partner is
satisfied with your penis size. Only use this if you're both
open-minded in the "size" conversation. Otherwise, it may cause
problems. Here it is:
Tell her: 'Imagine there is another guy that is an exact
duplicate of me, like a clone. Body, personality, everything is
the same except one thing. The clone has a smaller penis than
mine. One inch less in length and circumference. Now imagine the
two of us in front of you. Which one do you choose to have sex
with?' If you don't belong to the less than 0.1% of men whose
penises are just too big for most women, she will choose you of
course. But maybe she feels the trick coming and decides that
she wants both of you because she 'likes variety'. Insist that
she can only have one because the other one will evaporate or
whatever. She will surely choose you above the clone. Then
continue: 'Okay, now imagine this same clone but with a larger
penis than mine, one inch more in length and circumference. Who
do you choose now?' She will not answer it. True, it is a dirty
question that brings out the truth and shows the deepest desire
of your woman. It is a no-win situation for you because even if
she chooses you above the bigger one you won't believe her. But
let's say she insists and repeats that she really doesn't want
it to be bigger. Trick her like this: 'Okay, pretend I do not
exist and there are only the two clones, one with a penis
smaller than mine and one with a penis larger than mine. Who do
you choose now?' Force her to choose, just as she was able to
choose earlier on. She will most likely choose the bigger one.
All this means is that no healthy normal girl will choose the
guy with the small penis if all other things about them are
equal. And that bigger is most of the times better and that in
her mind she might wish you were a bit bigger. Attention: don't
use this trick unless she lies to you about the size of your
penis. Otherwise you are simply creating a problem instead of
solving one. {Pg. 43, penissizedebate}
The truth is, for some men, even if their partners are happy,
size does matter. I would offer this though - to try to compare
penis size to breast size in women, let's say aesthetically,
doesn't work. Breasts are evident; we men get to see what we're
getting beforehand. A man's package is not so evident (for very
large men, it can be). So women tend to focus more on the eyes,
hair-style, dress/fashion, smell, etc.
Regardless, I've been body-building and nutrition for over
twenty years, and I want my wife to be aesthetically attracted
to all of my body. These have been my experiences, with a
variety of products.
I had reached a goal with my physique, where I was very happy
with myself. My muscle size was above average, there was
symmetry, my skin was healthy, and I carried an air of
confidence. Then, I removed my briefs... My muscles had grown,
they had hardness to them; I was cut. But, below the belt, I was
the same size as I was before weight training. So, my first
attempt to increase size was with penis pills.
I ordered one brand that I saw advertised on television. The
product insert recommended a certain dosage and that I perform
some penis exercises, commonly referred to as "jelging." Jelging
requires that you stretch and manipulate the penis to achieve a
semi-erect state. Then, while holding the blood in the penis
with an "ok" sign grip, you would continue to force blood, with
a stroking motion towards the head of the penis.
After just about two weeks of the jelging-pill combination I saw
a noticeable increase in size, mostly in the flaccid state. One
day, while exiting the bathroom after a shower, my wife made the
comment, "nice hang." So, do women notice? You bet! Because, I
became more confident with the new size, I inadvertently became
more confident with the act of sex. My erect size, although not
as evident as the flaccid state, increased too.
I had reached a plateau, but wanted to be bigger. I was
interested in marketing a pump-device, used by a prominent
doctor (M.D.) in the penis-enlargement industry. So, I ordered
one.
I used the pump the day I received it. After just one half hour
session, my response was "Wow!" When I came out of the bathroom,
my wife looked down and her eyes just about popped out of her
head. Unfortunately, after about an hour, the results subsided,
but I was inspired to continue with the recommended protocol. We
often had sex, while I was in this increased size state, and my
wife felt a very noticeable difference. A ring placed around the
base of the penis, designed to maintain blood in the erect penis
prolonged the larger state.
I took "before and after" pictures all through my program. There
was a very noticeable increase in flaccid state size, and now,
even some increase in erect size. Once again, my wife made the
comment, "ummm... that's a good size." However, this was during
penetration. She also commented on how "Full" she felt, this was
referring to the increase in girth. I achieved a size that I was
very happy and comfortable with. So, I decreased the frequency
of pump sessions. I now only pump once a week at most, more so,
once every two weeks.
In addition, I've continued to take the PE (penis enlargement)
Pills, and I've added one that increases seminal fluid output
during ejaculation. I am now, like woman are fortunate to be
able to do, experiencing multiple orgasms. This feels GREAT!
This is referred to as, "The Ropes."
Another product I use, that contains a synergistic blend of ten
different Chinese herbs. I am over 40 years old, and I've
noticed a decrease in the amount of times I can achieve an
erection in a time period. While taking this product, which I
only do when I'm anticipating a sexual encounter, I achieve
harder, longer lasting erections. My refractionary time is
shortened, meaning I need less "down time" between orgasms. I
have now, like I did in my early twenty's, gone 4-5 times a
night! These results have lasted me 24, or more hours. So far,
this product has worked the first time, every time.
With a hectic, busy schedule, that includes caring for and
raising three small children, our sex life had seemed to take a
dive. One thing we made a point to do was to create a "date
night." The other was to create a night that we planned to have
sex on. This created some exciting anticipation, which promotes
some preparation for the encounter. The preparation is exciting
too! The increases in size I've attained and the addition of the
herbal products I use have added newness to our relationship
after ten years together.