10 Striking Ways on How to Get Yourself Ready for Dating &
Relationships
The following are 10 striking tips & tricks on how to get
yourself ready for dating & relationships. Use them wisely and
you will be bound to have fun and triumph in the dating arena.
1. Pamper Yourself First! Do the things that make you feel
contented and good, and then when you have more you can share
them with others.
2. Be Clear of What you are looking for.
If your primary reason for dating is to get into a meaningful
relationship, you have to clearly define what you want to
achieve in the relationship. Clarity brings balance between hope
and fear. Jot down the qualities you want most in your partner
in a long-term relationship. Then pick the 10 that are
non-negotiable must haves otherwise you'll get stuck.
3. Go for the Essentials.
Be definite about your personal values. Use them as your
guidelines in evaluating if a relationship is right for you or
not. Your values are your personal operating system. They can
only be compromised with your agreement.
4. Know Thyself. Know yourself, your strengths and weaknesses,
your dreams; when you can confidently talk about whom you are,
you attract what you want most AND people around you will help
you get it - because you've told them! The clearer you are about
what you want - the more others understand and can help you get
it.
5. Positive Attitude Goes a Long Way.
If your view of dating or finding a partner is negative you are
effectively closing the door to opportunities. You should have a
positive attitude, it makes a big difference. By adopting a
positive attitude you create space for infinite possibilities in
your life.
6. Have Supportive People Around.
Get help and support from family and friends who want the best
for you. Having supportive, reassuring people in your life is
important in bringing out the best in you.
7. Validating Feelings
Validate your feelings with the people around you. When you are
happy, how do they feel? When you are sad, how do they react? Be
aware of your positive and negative feelings and how they affect
those around you. Awareness of how you affect others opens up
areas of improvements.
8. You can be Interesting!
You had a private life before you started dating and began a
relationship, keep doing things that interest you and involve
your partner. Do not allow a new relationship to deprive you of
what you enjoy doing and your friends.
9. What's in a Relationship?
In a relationship, you should always be in the learning mode.
Examine and evaluate patterns of behavior that may be
detrimental and be on the look out for new ones that can lead to
healthy and happy relationships.
10. Trash the Excess Baggage!
Clean your personality closet of your negative attitude. Stop
feeling sorry for what was, let it go! You have the opportunity
to start anew and get exactly what you really desire.