9 Irresistible Tips on How to Set The Powerful Mind Set for
Dating
The following are 9 irresistible tips & tricks to ensure a
powerful mind set for dating. Use them wisely and you will be
bound to have fun and triumph in the dating arena.
1. Burn with Curiosity
Be curious about persons you find interesting, discover out what
makes them happy! What are their passions! The best way to get
to know someone is to be intrigued about life through their
eyes. You may be missing out on something altogether.
2. Avoid Setting Inappropriate Expectations
We are all unique individuals, with our own distinctive life
purpose. Expecting and convincing others do things your way does
not help them with their life lessons or you with yours!
3. It takes time...
It requires an investment of time and effort to get back into
the dating game especially if you have not dated for a while and
you are looking for an ideal partner. As we get older and learn
from our experiences our must-have requirements for an ideal
partner may have changed. Some character traits or behavior
patterns that were must haves may now be negotiable. Forget how
long you think it ought to take in finding your right partner.
4. Work out a 'Seize and Let Go' technique
If you are currently dating someone you enjoy being with yet you
know that this person is not THE ONE, do yourself a favor and
release the person. By keeping this person in your life keeps
YOU and them from being open for the real one. Don't be afraid
to let the other person go if you are not perfect for each
other. You never know if your ideal mate is just waiting for you
to become available!
5. Be the Playful You!
Embrace an expectation of fun when you go out on dates. Every
individual's best surfaces when having fun. There is no greater
way to enjoy yourself and time with others, share it with your
date - you being at your best!
6. Listen and Discover
Learn to ask questions and be a good listener BUT do not
interview you date. Take initiative to know the real person you
are sitting across from. Relax, have fun and enjoy hearing about
life from another person's perspective. Listen for cues, let the
conversation flow.
7. Be Captivating
People fall in love because they feel they finally know the real
you. Start being YOU right now, in every moment. Don't wait for
tomorrow to let others know you, they may just find you
distinctly attractive - right this very moment!
8. Accepting for What They Are
Accept people for what they are. This does not mean however that
every individual who comes along is a right match for you nor
does it mean that you will completely disregard inappropriate
behaviors. You have a choice of whether to see this person again
or not.
9. I'm sinking... Help!!
Avoid setting expectations that your date or your partner to
rescue you from your life. A healthy and fulfilling relationship
means both parties come together as a whole and together you
become even more amazing. If you are emotionally deprived you
may attract exactly what you don't want and repel what you do
want.