Five Questions You Should Be Sure To Ask Your Online Dating
E-Friend
Online dating can be very entertaining and gratifying.
Since its inception, online dating has continuously brought
people together even though they may be worlds apart. Online
dating makes bridges to connect people, enjoy each other, and
build dreams together.
However, it's not always possible to instantly find somebody
with whom to share the rest of your life.
Online dating is a continuous, systematic process. It entails
careful selection of words, pictures, and representations of the
person involved in order to get the best results. Moreover, from
the time you first find someone you think you could be
interested in, remember the process will continue as you both
get to know each other through a series of messages, chats, and
other forms of communication.
Along with this comes the careful selection of words used and
messages conveyed in order to establish natural, free-flowing,
yet enlightening conversations. These are not just a mere
exchange of words and phrases but a way of getting to know each
other.
Hence, it is extremely important to know which questions to ask
so that you can get a better sense of who the person is on the
other side of the virtual screen.
Here are some of the questions that you should ask your e-friend
in order to assess their personality and attitude. These
questions will help to provide the necessary information
regarding an individuals personal convictions and preferences.
Those who are involved in online dating just have to keep in
mind that when asking these questions, they should make it
appear very natural so that they will not sound like they are
being confrontational.
In addition, be sure that you are also prepared to answer the
same.
1. What is the major error that people make when dating online
for the first time?
This question will illustrate some idea about how the other
person views the opposite sex. In this way, one could get an
insight on the attitude of the other person and his or her
personal beliefs on some important matters like dating and
relationships.
2. What are you looking for in a guy/girl?
With this question, an individual can get hold of the qualities
that the other person is looking for in a companion.
However, one should take note of how the other person tries to
answer the question. If the reply is passed off with a joke or
some other attempt at humor chances are they have not yet
thought about the answer.
3. What is a really successful relationship?
One could get a good view on how the other person values
relationship. It would be better to hear the other person
provide an answer regarding how the two persons who are involved
in the relationship should work together as they grow.
4. What is your view on online dating services?
Through this question, a person will be able to know if the
other person has had some serious negative experience concerning
online dating or the other way around. In addition, through the
answers of the other person, one could guess if he or she is
still willing to consider online dating or not.
5. Did you fail on your last relationship?
Most people would certainly blame the other person in the
relationship. Others blame themselves too much. It would be
better to hear some answers like they (the couple) equally share
the blame and that it is just time to part ways.
The point in asking these questions is to establish a solid
foundation by finding out the kind of personality and attitude
the other person has. Keeping communication open is what matters
most.
The problem with a lot of people involved in online dating is
that most of them do not have any idea how to carry the
conversation. They do not know what questions to ask and how to
assess the answers they get.
Remember that asking some reliable questions will give you an
edge and you'll be more confident when the time comes to meet in
person.
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