Being Successfully Single Until the Right One Comes Along!
Our planet is brimming with a random lottery of people;
undeniably though, finding true love can be considered a risky
business. Love is supposed to be a beautiful feeling with lots
of happy thoughts emanating from the whole package of being in
love, so why is finding true love is considered a difficult
challenge?
Is finding love really so hard though? Or do we just make it
hard? Finding love is not hard, but sometimes it takes a long
time. So if you are single now, and I assume that you are, then
you are likely goint go be single for awhile.
Here are some advantages of being single:
1. You are independent Basically you can do what you want when
you want. You don't have to wait, you don't have to ask, you can
just go.
2. You have more time When you're single; you don't have to sit
around doing nothing. Want to go to the gym? Want to join the
hiking club? Play an instrument? How about watch your favorite
video for 10th time? Want to take a course? Learn a new hobby?
Who's stopping you?
3. You don't have to deal with another's personal habits You can
sleep without listening to someone's snoring and hog all the
blankets all the time and nobody cares. You don't have to pick
up after anyone but yourself. And you don't even have to pick up
after yourself if you don't want to. Give your patience a
well-deserved break.
4. You can be spontaneous Be daring! Do what you want when you
want to and who cares if you don't get to dinner until midnight?
Do something out of the ordinary, without having to get
permission first or calling ahead. This is freedom!
5. You can focus on your career You can channel your energy into
your work. Without a relationship, you have a lot more time. Put
in those extra hours and impress your boss, or take on new
projects.
6. You are your own boss Relationships need compromise and you
don't always get your own way. Both people in a relationship
have to give something up for the greater good of the
relationship. Do what you want and treat yourself more.
Selfishness is good for the soul (in small doses).
Don't stress! That special someone is out there and you can and
will find them. It just takes time.
In the meantime, enjoy being single. In fact, I believe that if
you can't be happy being single, you will never be happy with
your soulmate! Kind of like rich and poor. There are lots of
poor people who are happy and lots that are unhappy. Same with
rich people -- lots are happy and lots are unhappy. Now what do
you think would happen if we took a poor who was unhappy, and
gave them lots of money?
You guessed it! They would probably be happy for a short time,
but it wouldn't last and eventually they would be just as
unhappy as they were.
Ever wonder why that is? Being happy comes from inside of you
not outside. OK, you are single -- enjoy yourself and that
special person will come along before you know it!
I hope that you have found this article useful in your search.
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