Adoption Agency Selection Checklist
It was March of 1996 that the first draft of this checklist was
placed online. It has been used by thousands since then and,
with the feedback received since 1996, it has been shortened and
simplified. There are now 5 questions most easily answered by
using the yellow pages, or other agency advertisements such as
web pages, and then 11 questions that will probably require a
phone call to the agency. There is no difference if you are
placing a child you are expecting or if you are wanting to adopt
a child into your family. Either way you must select the agency
very carefully for the sake of your child.
You must also be concerned as to how the adopting parents of
your child, or the birthmother of your child, will be treated by
the agency you select. It is a VERY important decision.
As you are calling agencies and asking questions about the
issues from this checklist, it is very possible that the staff
will recognize that you are using this checklist. Do not let
that distract you from the critical issues addressed in the
checklist. Just acknowledge that you are using the
"openadoption.org checklist" and that you want to go over the
issues one by one. The issues are infinitely more important than
the source of the checklist you are using. The way agency staff
treat you, and your concerns, will tell you as much about an
agency as the written agency policies.
A PDF copy of the Adoption Agency Selection Checklist for
printing can be found at www.openadoption.
org/checklst.htm It will print out to one page and have 4
columns to compare multiple agencies. You may then take notes on
the printed copy as you study agency advertisements and call
agencies.
Adoption Agency Selection Checklist
After studying the www.openadoption.org web
pages to understand the issues involved, this form can be used
to compare four agencies. The more "Yes" answers to the
questions that follow the better an agency is. Few agencies will
get "Yes" answers to all 16 questions, and some questions are
more important. 1. Do the agency web site & advertisements make
it clear that the agency only does fully open, fully identified
adoptions?
2. Is this agency easy to drive to from your home?
3. Do you have a friend who knows or has used this agency and
gives it a very high recommendation?
4. Are there other agencies in your local yellow pages who have
much larger yellow page ads under the adoption heading?
5. Is the agency a church affiliated agency or is it over 30
years old?
Most of the above questions can be answered from agency web
sites, yellow pages, and other advertisements without calling
the agency. The questions below will probably require a call to
the agency, but count it as extra good if positive answers can
be found in agency advertisements. Count it as negative if there
is any hesitation by agency staff on the phone in answering
these questions.
6. Does the agency encourage maternity client parenting and
offer free support and guidance in parenting?
7. Did agency staff accurately define open adoption as involving
no secrets between birth and adopting families, and ongoing,
direct, in person contact between them? 8. Did agency staff make
it clear that they prefer to do fully open adoptions and rarely,
if at all, will they serve an adopting family wanting less than
a fully open adoption?
9. Does the agency strongly recommend, or even require, several
counseling sessions by their staff before a maternity client
starts considering the selection of a family for their child?
10. Does the agency always allow maternity clients selecting a
family for their child to be able study every waiting family
available through the agency for their child, and almost never
limits maternity clients to selecting from a few waiting
families chosen by agency staff?
11. Does the agency encourage matching between birth and
adopting families who live close enough to each other for easy
visits?
12. Does the agency have resumes by families adopting that are
fully identified, with full names and addresses as well as local
phone numbers on them, freely available for the selection
process?
13. Does the agency provide a copy of their adopting parent fee
agreement with clearly stated policies both about refunds and
that donations cannot be accepted during the adoption process?
14. Does the original fee amount also cover all birthmother
expenses anticipated with the agency paying any extra expenses?
15. Is agency a member of the Child Welfare League of America?
16. Is the race of the child expected one of the last questions
asked?
Total the Number of "Yes" answers and compair.