Does being "HUNG" make you her Superman?
Why is being big so important? Does being well endowed really
make a difference in the sexual life between you and your sexual
partner(s)? In our lifestyle the answer seems to point to a huge
YES. Is that the truth however? A decision was reached that the
best way to find out is to ask the people to whom it matters
most...the ladies. We asked several ladies ranging from
teenagers to ladies in their 40's, ladies that are with just one
partner to ladies who are promiscuous, and found that the
answers were rather surprising.
When speaking publicly about the subject of penises it seems
that most of the women tended to get embarrassed or shy at the
beginning of the conversation. Yet we noticed that as the
conversation continued these same people overcame the shyness
and embarrassment rather quickly. What surprised us right away
was that all of the women said that yes, penis size does play a
role in their sex life. However we also learned that it's not
usually a desire to come in contact with a big penis. In fact
only one of the ladies indicated that she is always looking for
the biggest penis, and that she has a difficult time with being
aroused and achieving orgasm unless it is a larger than average
penis. The other women mentioned that the visual aspect of a
large penis can be very arousing, and yet when it came down to
actually "doing the dirty" these women would back down as they
would be in physical pain if it was too long or too wide. Most
women reported that a fully erect penis at 7 inches in length
and about 5 inches in girth (circumference) was just about
perfect. In retrospect the ladies reported that a penis that was
shorter than 5 inches with a girth of 3 inches or less was
neither arousing nor very satisfying.
The average penis size for men is 5.5 to 7 inches in length and
4.75 inches in girth. That accounts for about 80% of males,
regardless of race (The Alfred C. Kinsey Institute for Sex
Research.) For those of us that are a part of this average, for
most women our size is perfect. What distinguishes the sexual
experience for a woman from one male to the next is more about
the "motion in the ocean." This does not only imply how well you
move your penis inside her vagina, but starts as early as when
you see her for the first time that day, to your demeanor and
confidence in front of her (not arrogance, but confidence), the
way that she was seduced, the foreplay, and finally the quality
and quantity of orgasms that we are able to provide for them.
Yet quantity is fickle where as quality is much more important,
if you can tease her enough, touch the right places for the
right amount of time in the right kind of way, and basically
cause an orgasm that drains all from her, then you will create a
memory in her that she will remember for the rest of her life.
Again size is not the key here, in fact one lady claimed that
she made love with a guy whose penis was only about 4 inches,
and yet the orgasm that she experienced with him, to this day,
has not been outdone. This makes one wonder, what if the guys
with the short penises are better in bed, only because they have
realized that they must compensate for their lack of penis size
and have learned to satisfy a woman using other methods than
just their penises. On top of this, what if the average sized
guys, or especially the larger sized men, learned the methods
that the 4 inch guys used? It is clear that our sexual
experiences would never be the same again. It would be like
upgrading from a Geo Metro to a Dodge Viper. So let's learn
those methods, so that we can make sure that we never again
leave our women unsatisfied.
To learn everything that there is to know about the art of
making your women satisfied it would require reading a book that
is thicker than your dictionary. So obviously we will not
include all of it here. We would be able to give you some useful
info, hints and pointers, from the point where you are both
naked together. We decided to break the information down into
several specific areas:
- First we will discuss penis function and how we can improve
on it. - Second we will look into finger and hands ability and
how we can use them to stimulate her to the max.
-Third we will go into tongue motion, and how we can make her
have an unforgettable orgasm.
-Lastly we will see other methods that could be used to make
sure that she has an experience that will make sure you are win
her medal as the best lover ever.
Penis function
Our penises are infamous for being unruly. During sexual
intercourse, we tend to ejaculate way too soon, or not at all.
Sometimes we can't even get an erection, much less ejaculate. A
few things to remember:
- Do not attempt to create that amazing experience if you are
drunk or high on drugs. It is not a problem to have a glass of
wine or two, however being drunk or high does a couple of
negative things.
-It will be difficult to concentrate on what it is that you are
doing.
-You will probably have difficulty maintaining an erection,
which would lead you to concentrate on doing everything you can
to maintain that erection to make sure you achieve orgasm, and
be less worried about her. On the other hand if you decide to
concentrate on her, you would be prone to loose your erection
and that will also keep you from achieving an unforgettable
experience.
- You will likely take much too long to achieve orgasm yourself
and thus again create less of a pleasurable experience for her.
- You may accidentally do things that are less than attractive,
such as hiccupping, burping, farting, etc.
- Caffeine and nicotine shrinks your veins not allowing as much
blood flow, which includes your penis, making it less firm. So
avoid products that have those, well in advance of the sexual
session.
- There are a couple of techniques and products that help you
elevate your experience. - A technique known as the Kegel's PC
exercise helps to give you rock hard erections, enable you to
ejaculate further than you ever dreamed, and also give you
incredible power to hold back the urge to ejaculate until you
feel the desire to. A free guide can be found here: F
ree Kegel's Guide
(http://www.enhancementresearch.com/penis_enhancement.htm)
- Ribbed condoms will create an added friction and sensation
inside the vagina.
- Viagra (http://www.viagra.com), or any of its counterparts,
can help create a session that lasts hours instead of minutes.
However it does require a prescription and thus is not readily
available.
- There are a number of other things such as cock-rings,
however they may not necessary be pleasurable. In fact many
women reported them to be painful more than anything.
Fingers and Hands
The power of touch, specifically using the fingers and hands,
is incredible. There are many ways to use your hands and fingers
to stimulate and increase the level of excitement with the sense
of touch. - Nipples are sensitive to the touch, try twisting
them, pulling on them, rubbing the top of them, and rubbing
around them. Nipples are sensitive so be careful to not over do
it as that would turn the pleasure into some serious pain.
- Breasts can create great sensations if properly squeezed.
Grab a hold of the breast, positioning the hand closest to the
body (farthest away from the nipple) and squeeze. You can
squeeze the breasts harder than the nipple, but they are still
tender so be careful when doing so.
- The arms can be very stimulating to the woman, specifically
the hairs on the arms. Glide slowly over the top of the arm,
just barely touching the hairs. Certain parts of the arm will be
more responsive than others, so it will probably take some time
to master. It may also be necessary that she be already aroused
before doing this, although some women respond to this anytime.
We are not referring to her arm pit, which is probably ticklish.
Doing this should rarely cause her to be ticklish.
Sensual massage is almost always erotic to any lady.
- Use sensual oils, do not use cooking oils.
- A book is not necessary, but can make it that much better. We
recommend I
diot's Guide to Sensual Massage
- Sensual massage is different from regular message, it is not
used to get rid of the knots in the muscles (although it may.)
This type of massage should be light pressure.
Scratching the scalp is also something that can drive a woman
crazy (in a good sense.)
- This is something that some women respond better to than
others, although most do enjoy it.
- Some spots are more sensitive than others.
- Do not scratch too hard, as that can be very painful, have
her tell you whether she wants it to be scratched harder or to
let off a bit.
- Although this feels good, it is also more relaxing than
arousing so this may be better suited towards after both of you
have "done your thing," although sometimes this can also be very
sensual.
Clitoral touching is definitely something that will turn her on.
- Be sure not to over-sensitize the clitoris, that's a great
way to ruin the whole session.
- Use some form of lubricant, whether it is natural, such as
saliva or the lubricant from the vagina, or a chemical
lubricant.
- Use a circular motion around the clitoris, throwing in a few
up and downs, and left and rights.
The butt hole can be either a good thing, or a very bad thing.
- Don't sneak it up on her; let her know what it is that you
are planning on doing. If she says no, try it one more time
later in the session, if she says no again then just let it go,
until the next session at least.
- Do not stick your finger inside the butt hole. Place your
finger over the top of the butt hole and apply some pressure,
making some small and slow vibrating movements.
Tongue motion
Ah yes, the almighty tongue. First of all using your tongue
should not only be amazing for her, but also at least
comfortable for you. If you feel even remotely grossed out
because of the smell or taste of that person's genitalia you
will not be able to perform as well. Suggest a coed shower to
start off your session. Offer to shampoo her genitalia, and make
it a sexually arousing experience.
There are many ways to stimulate a woman with your tongue and we
recommend a book for this as well. We like Low
Down on Going Down
- Sometimes your tongue may get tired but whatever you do, do
not give up or stop. Use your fingers for a while (make sure
they are lubricated or at least wet) until your tongue recovers
a bit.
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