"WAIT! IS HE THE RIGHT CHOICE FOR A LOVER?"
"The Danger in being a concubine"
Most girls in a relationship have chosen to be substitutes
rather than main girlfriends. some of them i have spoken to say
that the men whom they are involved with are not too demanding
and can take care of their needs better than some guys would if
they were with them. some say they hope to dethrone the main
girlfriend and take the position.
A girl who is in such a relationship should know that she is not
safe as she's just on a cliffhanger, it's easier for her to fall
off than for the main girlfriend to be sent away.
Most of you girls believe that one day, it would be your turn to
be the main lover but you are wrong. out of 10 of such
relationships, only 1 of it actually happens, so the risk is
greater than the gain and i don't see any reason why one should
get involved in such a fruitless relationship.
i have seen many men who are involved in a romantic relationship
actually deviate or stray and flirt with other girls and in the
end, they always returned to their original girlfriends rather
than the ones they flirted with. girls, you are at a greater
risk of loosing than winning so STOP that dangerous game NOW!
People who flirt continuously, it's being shown that they do
suffer from a complex either at present or in the past and use
this medium to show that they are sexier and hotter than any
other and can get any man of their dreams. This feeling of
inferiority has gotten alot of people into trouble and the irony
of it all is that it can be cured within a twinkle of an eye.
Wouldn't you be interested in knowing how it could be cured?
have you evaluated your life and seen where it is that you went
wrong? Have you being nursing the idea of stealing another girls
man? i can assure you that if you do steal another girl's man,
that same man would be stolen from you and there's nothing you
can do to stop it.
have you really thought of getting a "fresh man" of your choice?
the one you could be proud of and showcase? Do you know how many
men out there really need you and would want to do anything to
have you? Did you look across the window this morning to see
them? if you look CAREFULLY, i am assuring you this, you would
SEE!
Take sometime to evaluate your life, evaluate the people around
you and make a careful selection. there are lovely guys in your
work place, the church, social gatherings, friends' brothers, so
many of them to choose from, all you need now is to say this is
whom i want and he would be yours after doing the necessary
things to woo him over. Please be careful when wooing him so it
doesn't seem as though you're so desperate, he'll either run
away or just use and dump you. So girl, play it SMART!
With this, i know you have a start in restructuring your love
life and take it to any level you choose to, the choice is
yours. GOOD LUCK!
Donald. A www.justusalone.com +2348027466159