Men's Formal Dress
When you receive an invitation card for the formal party, this
may be a sign that you are having a move up your career path or
it is your first formal charity event. As you read the
invitation you see listed among the details "black tie". Does
that mean you need to wear a tuxedo? Will a suit do just as
well?
If you want to feel comfortable and impress your host, determine
what formal attire is expected based on the terms used in the
invitation as well as the many choices available to you.
1. Black Tie is a common reference to a formal affair. If the
invitation specifically states 'black tie' you WILL be expected
to come in a tuxedo. You do not have to wear a black tuxedo - a
grey tuxedo would be equally acceptable.
You may also prefer to add some color or distinction to your
outfit by choosing a cummerbund, vest and tie that is a
patterned or solid color. Choose a sophisticated cuff link and
finish the look with black patent leather shoes.
The variety of styles available today allows you to customize
your look with the cut of the coat, the color of your
accessories and they style of neck wear. Depending on the event
and your hosts you may determine if too much self-expression
would detract from the evening. If you are unsure it is wise to
stick with traditional black and white.
2. White Tie is the most formal dress request. It requires a
strict attention to tradition and does not permit the guest to
deviate from an accepted standard.
A White Tie event requires the men to be wearing a black, full
dress tailcoat, wing collar shirt, white pique vest and tie. You
may also wish to add such elegant touches as a top hat, cane and
white gloves.
3. Traditional (or Formal) Morning Attire - Another take on
formal wear for day time events is the traditional morning
attire. The most formal suit is composed of a grey cutaway coat,
striped trousers and grey vest with a wing collar shirt and
ascot. Less formal dress would substitute a Stroller coat; lay
down collar shirt and four-in-hand tie.
For non-traditional formal wear at a day time event you can wear
a black or grey tuxedo or even a white tuxedo for warm weather
events.
4. Semi-formal allows the guest to wear either a black or grey
tuxedo or a suit. Seasonal appropriate colors can be used for
day time affairs.