A Maid of Honor's Responsibility
You've been asked to do the honors for your friend at her
wedding. You need to be aware that there is much more to it than
holding the bouquet during the ceremony.
Probably the most important job you will have is keeping the
bride somewhat calm and sane from planning to the wedding. It
will be a nonstop responsibility for you to utilize every
stress-busting technique known to man! Listen to her when she
needs an ear. Make sure she's eating.
Shopping may be the next most important duty you will have. You
may be asked to assist the bride in shopping for her dress. You
will be in charge of helping the bridesmaids choose and buy
their dresses. You may also be called into service to shop for
the cake, caterers, photographer, anything that can be
purchased. In tandem with this is helping with tasks such as
addressing envelopes.
You will be in charge of planning and throwing the bachelorette
party. The bridal shower is also your responsibility. Be sure to
keep track of all gifts the bride receives at any function. This
will aid her greatly when it comes time to send thank you notes.
Now the big day has arrived. No time to rest on your laurels
yet. You need to make sure that the bridesmaids are at the
ceremony, dressed and ready on time. The same goes for the
bride. Make sure she is dressed and everything is in place.
Check her veil, train and hair. You'll need to do this before
the wedding begins and again once you reach the altar.
You will be in possession of the groom's ring during the
ceremony. You will also be in charge of the bride's bouquet.
Once the vows have been exchanged, you will sign the marriage
license and dance with the best man during the first official
dance.
Your final duty as maid of honor will be to toast the newlyweds.
Then, you may enjoy the festivities!