Strong Women, Submissive Women
Do you know a sexy, strong woman at your place of work? Perhaps
she's a manager or business owner. Maybe she's a salesperson
that works with your company or she represents a vendor. Do you
want to know a little secret about her? She's very likely demure
and submissive in the bedroom!
What's that? How can that be? She's a real ball-buster during
the day!
Sure, that's her persona during the day, but studies show that
the vast majority of women shift roles when it comes to their
emotional/sexual lives; with a distinct direction: from
dominance to submission. This seems like a strange dichotomy,
but stick with me here.
While many women are terrified of others knowing this fact, most
women prefer a submissive bedroom role. I'm not going to go into
all the science behind this, but it's an important thing to
understand if you're actually attracted to one of these
"strong-by-day, submissive-by-night" types of women.
Let's say that you want to approach one of these girls. How do
you do it? First, if you're already the CEO or VP of your
company, you have a much stronger chance of being accepted than
if not. It's unfortunate, but the stronger a woman is (and the
higher her position within a company) the more men she'll cut
out of her "potential date" list. That doesn't mean you have no
chance however.
The approach here is one of strength and confidence - much more
so than other women. The reason is that these women want to be
with men they perceive as even stronger than they are. This is a
critical element in the approach because it has to be just as
strong and confident. If you waiver here, you're not going to
get a second chance.
Your approach isn't one of "Hey, want to go have drinks after
dinner?" Instead, you want to say something like, "I don't know
what your plans are for Friday, but cancel them. I'm taking you
out for drinks. I'll pick you up at 8 sharp." This is a very
powerful position to take, but trust me; it's the correct one
for this girl.
You have to be able to carry this confidence into dating too.
When you date a strong woman be ready to show even more strength
and have more direction than her! This is a tall order for many
men, but having clear, concise goals and an understanding of
these rules helps to make it easier. Be goal-oriented and know
what you want with her. If you don't, she's liable to walk all
over you and impose her goals right up to showing you the door.
One other thing you'll find with these strong women is that
you'll get Tested
(http://beingaman.com/articleviewer.asp?ID=349) more often and
with greater intensity. This challenge is simply to prove that
you're still the powerful guy you appeared to be during the
initial approach. It may last well into the relationship by the
way! If you falter on these Tests, you might just lose her
completely.
So, after all this work, what's the benefit to you? Simple - a
devoted, loyal, willing and happy girlfriend! Someone that will
easily take your lead anywhere you want to go be it in the
relationship or in the bedroom. These women are very special and
any man that can win her is in for a real treat. She tends to be
sexually adventurous, creative and enthusiastic - more so than
most women. She'll continue to give you reasons to trust her
because she is paying you back for being the man of her dreams.
She'll even become the woman you've dreamed of all your life
simply because she wants to make you happy.
You just have to make it past all the initial suspicion and
challenge you'll get; but trust me, it's worth it.
Why do these strong women want to be submissive in the bedroom
and the relationship? There are many subtle answers but most of
it comes right down to natural wiring. Feeling safe and secure
in a relationship is a critical element for all women. If you
think about this, isn't just about every aspect of men's
relationships with women involved with proving this security?
You bet it is!
Now, obviously this doesn't apply to every strong woman -
especially if her strength is born out of fear of weakness; but
it's true of most. You can safely approach strong women with the
belief that they're looking for an even stronger man so that
they can melt into the comfort of the willing, submissive role -
until proven otherwise.
Best regards...