Are You Desperate To Date A Girl?
Don't be! Finding the right girl for you to date takes a lot of
confidence, honesty and time. A good place to start is visiting
the places where a lot of people hang out, at the same time,
places that you love so that you both have a thing in common. If
you love going to coffee shops or going to clubs on Friday
nights, then look for her there. It is important to meet a girl
that do things similar to things that you do.
An effective and interesting way to meet a girl is through
online matchmakers. These matchmaker sites will assist you so
you can find the right girl for you. Here, you can read about
their personalities and traits as well as you can talk to them
and see their photos. Make certain that you take time in knowing
the girl well before you invite and meet with her on a date.
If meeting girls online is not your "cup of tea" then you can
meet girls at social gatherings, parties, clubs, disco or the
gym. You can also organize a simple party and let your girl
buddies to bring along their friends. The more girls that you
meet, you have more chances of meeting that special girl for
you. Just remember that you will not meet her just by staying at
home. You have got to go out and look for her with conscious
effort and a very alert mind.
And when you do find her, although it is a good thing to display
your attraction and interest, never over do it; never tell her
things that will make her run away from you.
Keep in mind not to ask the girl right away for a date; asking
her too soon might scare her off. Instead, be casual and
friendly; get to her a step at a time, before you decide to date
her. Call her so you both can have a conversation and you will
find some things about her. Then when you feel that the time is
right and that you like her enough to spend an evening with her,
then go and ask.
Congratulations! Now you are ready for a date (in case she
answered yes). Here are guidelines on what to do:
1. Spend the evening in a place you know she loves. Since you
already know what her "likes" are during your phone
conversations, then you will have an idea where to bring her.
Also be sure you like the place; this will be of no problem,
since you met her in a place that you both enjoy visiting.
2. Dress right. This means dressing for the occasion and for the
place; dress that you look and feel good. Take extra effort so
that you are well groomed (shaved, smells nice, freshly ironed
clothes and clean shoes). Remember, this is your first date and
you have to put on that good and lasting impression on her.
3. Relax and be yourself. Do not put too much thought on whether
she will like you or not. The fact that she said yes for this
date means she likes you. When you are relaxed, you can converse
well and make her at is as well.
4. Be courteous and polite. Be careful of the things you say and
do as rude comments or anxious behavior is unpleasant and can
offend her. Be considerate and respectful; when you smoke, ask
her first.
5. Listen. At some point, let her do the talking and just listen
attentively. By listening, your conversation will continue to
flow. While it is good to ask her questions so that you can get
to know her, be careful with your questions and avoid personal
interrogation.
6. Be careful when selecting the food. From your phone
conversations, learn what her favorites are. Likewise, carefully
choose a menu that is not messy to eat.
7. Never ever get drunk. There is nothing humiliating then
having a drunken date.
8. Never talk about your past relationships. Remember, the woman
you like is with you now and a potential serious relationship at
hand. Forget about the past.
9. End the date right, do not be overly pushy. Evaluate the
situation. When you feel that you both had a good time and you
like her, a hug or a brief kiss will do. Do not go beyond. This
will just send out the wrong sign, signaling to her that you are
either very desperate or that you are only out for sex. Do not
forget to thank her and tell her that you had a wonderful.
So do not be desperate. There are a lot of women out there and
if you will not find them, chances are, they will find you! Just
be patient!