Why Do Women Love "Jerks"? - Unveiling the Untold Secret &
Mystery Within
Let us view the other side of the coin. What is it that a "Jerk"
has, that makes women respond to him better? Even if they are
voicing their dissent - nobody treats me nicely! The answer to
this dilemma is simple: Jerks exude self-confidence, without
even knowing it!
Consider how "Jerks" carry themselves:
1. When he is livid, he makes no bones about it, its all over
his face and actions.
2. He hardly cares for the opinion of others. His ego state is
at an all time high: I'm OK; rest of the world is NOT OK. Most
importantly he does not idolize women.
3. He positions himself and his needs much before anything else.
His sole priority is "me". And talk about rejecting women? They
do it faster than a wink!
4. He does not allow people to act rude or cheeky with him.
5. He doesn't care if actions hurt or insult a woman.
Though it may sound irrational, but it is these qualities of a
"Jerk" that a woman sucks up to! It is no wonder then that a
"jerk" gets his way around. But a "jerk's" problem starts right
here. He goes to the extremes, thereby appearing to be a
selfish, egoistical, coarse individual. There is of course a
middle path, but it is essential for you to realize and
appreciate why these people emerge triumphant. It is not rare
that we hear women refer to such guys as "jerks", as if they
were talking in very derogatory terms about them, and all you
Nice Guys go home believing that it is the opposite behavior
that women are looking for.
The truth of the matter, when you hear such whining, lies in an
amalgamation of two factors:
1. Women voicing their protest, because they can no longer be in
the driver's seat, so as to exercise "control" over the man's
behavior, which they are so used to, and,
2. The guy's unpardonable "jerkish" qualities
Come to think of it, if it was really true that this alleged
"jerk" was so abominable that no woman would touch him with a
bargepole, they would not associate with him in the first place.
Of course, his aggressive nature is attractive, his selfishness
is very macho, and his unrefined, coarse ways are "cute" to
women, hence the attraction.
Incidentally, guys who have been dumped by women after being
identified as "jerks" are out of my consideration set, because
here the woman has validated her opinion by dumping him. I am
essentially discussing about men, who women love to date, be
friends with, and simultaneously crib about.
An admirable man is a true and honest gentleman, whose manners
and deportment are impeccable. So, what are the qualities of a
"Jerk" you must learn to avoid being that "admirable" man:
1. Unreasonable and unjustified throwing of tantrums (teach
yourself some self-discipline and self-control)
2. Physical or mental abuse
3. Impolite and discourteous manners.
4. Purposefully bringing mental agony and trauma to the woman.
5. Haughty, self-centered and impolite attitude