The Untold Truths About Finding Your True Love
"All we need is love." Myth or not? Since love does seem to be
able to overcome anything and everything, at least on television
and at the movies, this seems like a reality. However, truth is,
making relationships work takes skill and hard work, regardless
of the "love" factor. This is a myth here.
Let's take a peak at some of the more common concepts above
"love" relationships and see if they are myths or based upon
reality.
If you are thinking of going into a relationship, or if you find
yourself falling in love, and ready to date, keep this in mind:
relationship is way, way beyond just love and attraction.
Just like in fairy tales, once true love is found, people live
happily ever after. Truth or myth? Granted couples can look into
each other's eyes and have those warm fuzzy feelings. However,
truth is, all couples will have their ups and downs. "Happily
ever after" seems to imply a perfect, problem-less relationship
when in reality, those don't exist.
If you are in a problem-less relationship (which doesn't exist
anyway), you'll get bored one day. And one of the couples will
want to run away!
So, is it possible to create and maintain a long lasting and
blissful relationship, or can one even dream of creating the
relationship of his or her dreams?
You bet!
The first step is to arm yourself with the genuine knowledge and
instructions on how to create your soul-based relationship.
Trust me, it is worth your time and money if you can ever find a
comprehensive course of instructions and learn more about the
truth of relationship, and especially how you can draw in your
soul mate!
It has to be "love at first sight" in order to work long-term.
Myth or truth? While this can be true for some, it certainly
doesn't have to be for all couples in long-term relationships.
Many people grow together over time.
Since practically anyone can learn the nuts and bolts of
relationship building, focusing on some basic techniques that
can be learned is a must. The main ones, in no particular order,
are:
- Understand your-self. Understand yourself. What is your
personality. You may be surprised. Some people live for a long
time and never come to understand or even realize why they are
the way they are! And why is this important? It determines how
you look at the world, how you will interpret the events
occurring in your life, and WHO YOU ARE will help your partner
determine how to react to YOU!
- Rapport: Develop rapport with others well. Now let's take a
quick peak at the basics of developing rapport with others. In a
nutshell, what it takes is to ask questions, have a positive,
open attitude, encour age an open exchange of communications
(both verbal and unspoken), listen to verbal and unspoken
communications and share positive feedback.
- Conflict Resolution: Resolve negative issues and conflicts
without too much friction How do you handle conflicts? If you
can put your ego aside pretty much and try to keep friction to a
minimum, your relationships should move along fairly smoothly.
Where you feel disagreement, if you can "agree" to disagree on
certain things with the other party involved, that will help,
too. In short, conflict resolution means to pretty much deal
with others as you would want them to deal with you.
Once true love is found, people live happily ever after. Truth
or myth? Well, it will definitely not be a perfect, problem-less
journey. However, you definitely can live happily ever after
with the love of your life, if only you will arm yourself with
the right relationship skills and learn relationship mastery
whole heartedly.
Trust me, this is within your power. It is your destiny to draw
in your highest and best mate, if you have decided to.