The Elusive Power of Drawing Your Own Boundaries - Dating Advice
for Men
Tired of being taken for granted? Sick of being taken for a
ride? Well, the fault could begin in the way you interact with
people. It could well be possible that you start any interaction
appearing to be meek, over-polite and faint-hearted; giving the
impression to others that this guy can easily be trod upon.
Its time you learn how, where and when to draw the line. It's
always good to appear tough on the outside with a soft core,
rather than the opposite. Start firm; loosen later, so that
people are abundantly clear that you are truly a no-nonsense
person.
Set your own standards of expectations from people. How much of
what do you exactly want from people? One of man's biggest fears
in interacting with others is the "fear of rejection". But once
you make it clear about what values you stand for and what you
expect, people start taking you seriously.
They stop messing around with you, your privacy and you life in
general. For instance, when a woman hurts your sentiments, say
firmly or let her know in as many words that you are ready for
such nonsense. Either she amends her ways or let's call it
quits. Even if she quits, she will regard you and leave in grace.
Next important thing in life is to have a mission. An objective,
an aim, that you live for, you work towards. This focus in life
really sets the balance and does not let even a moment of your
life go waste. Imagine the lives of some great men who walked
this planet.
How is it that they did not have problems with women? Simply
because they were adding value to their own lives and to the
world at large, everyday of their lives, through their sole
mission. And this focus and aim, truly attract worthy women.
Take some time off for yourself and do a recap of the past, your
present and where you want to go. What this life means to you.
What are you going to leave behind, when you are no longer
there? It's not difficult to imagine.
You need not climb the Mount Everest, or take a solo engine
flight across Atlantic, or for that matter be a great
philanthropic soul - create hundreds of hospitals for the poor;
its far more simpler than that - like creating a stable and
loving family, or taking a step towards eradication of social
abuse in your own neighborhood! Believe me; these attributes in
a man are simply irresistible to women.