How To Share Romance In Your Relationship
If someone asks you "What's the best thing about romance in a
relationship?",what would you answer? In my oppinion,the best
thing about romance in a relationship is that it is shared.
While one partner may initiate it, both end up enjoying any
romantic effort. Romance is a relationship activity and cannot
work if both partners aren't participants.
When you decide that romance is the way you want to go in order
to improve your marriage or even work towards having an
outstanding marriage, start planning your romance in advance
with both you and your partner in mind. Even if you are giving a
gift to your partner, keep in mind how it will affect you when
you present it to him or her. i'm not kidding,some gifts are
actually meant for both of you although it is presented to only
one partner (ex. Massage oil). Both of you must enjoy the
romance in order for it to be effective in your relationship.
While being romantic often draws to mind gifts and planning
outings together, you don't have to spend money in order to be
romantic! You can plan a day where you are completely at your
spouse's disposal. Devote yourself entirely to your spouse for
an entire day. He or she can ask you to do chores, rub their
feet, give them a massage, watch a movie you normally wouldn't
watch together or try an interest of his or hers that you
haven't tried. Your spouse may also decide that you are best put
to use in the bedroom!
When you want to do something extra special, take your spouse on
a local 'honeymoon' trip! Find a local hotel that has a
honeymoon suite and book it for one night. Do it up right and
make sure it is stocked with champagne, strawberries and whipped
cream. Have flowers and your song available to play in your
room. For her, have new lingerie laid out on the bed. For him,
have new lingerie laid out on the bed. For an extra special
twist, pack a bag for your spouse, hire a sitter if necessary
and tell him or her that you're going out for the evening.
Blindfold your spouse and lead him or her to your honeymoon
suite.
Find an affordable card shop or see if your local greeting card
store offers any type of multiple card purchase discounts. Buy
as many cards for your spouse as you can. Store the cards and
send them to your spouse intermittently. You can choose to send
them every few months, every month, every week, each day or
every waking hour!
Take the time to create your own loving edible baked goods for
your spouse! Make heart shaped cookies, a heart shaped cake or
make your own heart shaped chocolates. Find a heart shaped bowl,
pop popcorn to serve in the bowl and spend the entire day
watching romantic movies together.
No matter which one of this ideas you will use for special
occasions,always remember that it doesn't really matter when or
how you do something romantic as long as you do it together.