Do You Have Anyone who Cares For You?
Are you a fortunate person to have someone in your life who
cares for you? I don't mean care in the sense it is commonly
used. But who cares for you like your mother used to, when you
were a child? You are a grown-up person now. Does that imply
that you don't need anyone to take your care? Don't you need
someone to ask you if you are ok? And then to try and make you
comfortable? Don't you need someone who knows what you like and
then to arrange for it? Don't you need someone who will put balm
on your aching legs? Who will smother you with love, when you
feel lonely?
Don't you want someone to just come and sit beside you and talk
to you in silence? Don't you need someone who will make you cry,
because you want to, but can not because you are an adult? Don't
you feel that you need someone in front of whom you can cry your
heart out? And be sure that someone will wipe your tears? Or
because you are adult, such things are not done? Even if one
feels extreme pain of any kind, one can cry either in church or
all alone in a park? We are adults. But there is a child in all
of us. We are fighters, but sometimes we lose the battles. We
can bear every pain, but sometimes the pain can overcome our
capacity. We all need a person in our life, who can be our
mother, even if we are eighty years old. Who can understand that
we need care. We wish to be pampered. We want someone to take
our face in lap and comfort us. Yes, we can deny all this, but
we need someone who cares for us.
All of us need a person who takes our care. If we are allowed to
cry, if we are made to speak about all our troubles, if we are
pampered to relax us, we will feel heavenly. But unfortunately
we are all adults. These essentials of living are for kids. For
adults, it is a corner in their homes or in the office, where
they can sit and worry and show to the world that they are
adults. You may wish to view some cards that can be used to show
that we care. Please view them at Thinking Of You Cards- 1 and 2